I do find there to be rather a lot of hypocrisy that the same people who will quip "Yuck why are you cis perverts all OBSESSED with genitals" will in the next breath unironically say "Ooh yay The Sims have shapewear now so you can make it look like they have different genitals through their clothes!"

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Like I don't even particularly have an issue with people taking either stance or making either point... but what sort of mental hoops does one have to jump through to hold BOTH positions? To seemingly believe that genitals are simultaneously all-important, but also, not important at all.