[GoldHeart]

It's official
I now dislike Ali ,what ashame ...this one actually hurts as I was really hoping she'd be a breath of fresh air . And I liked how composed and intelligent she initially was.

But she's just a ice cold bitch , that conversation she had with Khaled was dreadful to the ears ,and it was the most pointless tone deaf thing.

she wasn't taking on board a word he said, she's made a snap judgement of him out of nowhere. Even when he tried apologising,she just shut him down and walked off in a very weird passive aggressive way. She's made up her mind about him...and she clearly won't give him a chance.

Does she think she's above him ? . She's stuck up and seems to have a permanent scowl on her face . If she wants to psycho analyse the housemates, maybe she should try and apply for the therapist job next time on L& L ...but somehow I think Judi James' job is safe... So Judi has nothing to worry about.

Only time I've seen Ali crack a smile is when Nathan broke wind . She really is a sour lemon .

[Ammi]

…I’m not going to dislike Ali after one highlight show and one conversation…and I don’t think either she or Khaled looked great from it all…but I’m thinking more that she’s not really someone who can easily be part of a group…I wonder as a psychologist, how she would analyse herself…

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by GoldHeart

It's official
I now dislike Ali ,what ashame ...this one actually hurts as I was really hoping she'd be a breath of fresh air . And I liked how composed and intelligent she initially was.

Only time I've seen Ali crack a smile is when Nathan broke wind . She really is a sour lemon .

People with autism may have difficulty making appropriate facial expressions, including smiling, at the right times:


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[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by Zizu

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Lol

who smiles at the right time?

that is totally subjective

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by Crimson Dynamo

Lol

who smiles at the right time?

that is totally subjective

Its not MY view - it was copied and pasted.

It is a well accepted autistic trait


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[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by Zizu

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I appreciate that,but she really hasn't helped herself... especially in last night's HL . It seems more arguments and cold behaviour is to come.

[vesavius]

Originally Posted by GoldHeart

It's official
I now dislike Ali ,what ashame ...this one actually hurts as I was really hoping she'd be a breath of fresh air . And I liked how composed and intelligent she initially was.

But she's just a ice cold bitch , that conversation she had with Khaled was dreadful to the ears ,and it was the most pointless tone deaf thing.

she wasn't taking on board a word he said, she's made a snap judgement of him out of nowhere. Even when he tried apologising,she just shut him down and walked off in a very weird passive aggressive way. She's made up her mind about him...and she clearly won't give him a chance.

Does she think she's above him ? . She's stuck up and seems to have a permanent scowl on her face . If she wants to psycho analyse the housemates, maybe she should try and apply for the therapist job next time on L& L ...but somehow I think Judi James' job is safe... So Judi has nothing to worry about.

Only time I've seen Ali crack a smile is when Nathan broke wind . She really is a sour lemon .

Yes

[Garfie]

Originally Posted by GoldHeart

It's official
I now dislike Ali ,what ashame ...this one actually hurts as I was really hoping she'd be a breath of fresh air . And I liked how composed and intelligent she initially was.

But she's just a ice cold bitch , that conversation she had with Khaled was dreadful to the ears ,and it was the most pointless tone deaf thing.

she wasn't taking on board a word he said, she's made a snap judgement of him out of nowhere. Even when he tried apologising,she just shut him down and walked off in a very weird passive aggressive way. She's made up her mind about him...and she clearly won't give him a chance.

Does she think she's above him ? . She's stuck up and seems to have a permanent scowl on her face . If she wants to psycho analyse the housemates, maybe she should try and apply for the therapist job next time on L& L ...but somehow I think Judi James' job is safe... So Judi has nothing to worry about.

Only time I've seen Ali crack a smile is when Nathan broke wind . She really is a sour lemon .

I can understand your response, as even though I understand why Ali might have behaved as she did, on this occasion, I don’t think she handled the situation well, and I didn’t like how she made her accusations and humiliated Khaled in a very public way, even though to her, she probably perceived her behaviour as honest, genuine and direct.

If she felt this way, it would have been kinder and more appropriate to have discussed it with Khaled in a personal, rather than public setting.

I do kind of agree that her perception of Khaled has been influenced and formed with her professional head on, rather than from norms of behaviour in a social setting - the first approach of which she would find a confident and comfortable way of thinking, whilst the second would be much more difficult for her to understand. Autistic people can become quite fixated on an idea, and I feel that Ali has made a judgement of Khaled that she cannot now shake off, and which might influence her perception of everything he does in future. I don’t personally agree with her perception, or find her judgement justified.

Even though I might understand why she may have behaved as she did, I don’t believe she chose the right approach on this occasion, and I do wonder whether she might recognise that when she has had some time to think.

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by Garfie

I can understand your response, as even though I understand why Ali might have behaved as she did, on this occasion, I don’t think she handled the situation well, and I didn’t like how she made her accusations and humiliated Khaled in a very public way, even though to her, she probably perceived her behaviour as honest, genuine and direct.

If she felt this way, it would have been kinder and more appropriate to have discussed it with Khaled in a personal, rather than public setting.

I do kind of agree that her perception of Khaled has been influenced and formed with her professional head on, rather than from norms of behaviour in a social setting - the first approach of which she would find a confident and comfortable way of thinking, whilst the second would be much more difficult for her to understand. Autistic people can become quite fixated on an idea, and I feel that Ali has made a judgement of Khaled that she cannot now shake off, and which might influence her perception of everything he does in future. I don’t personally agree with her perception, or find her judgement justified.

Even though I might understand why she may have behaved as she did, I don’t believe she chose the right approach on this occasion, and I do wonder whether she might recognise that when she has had some time to think.

I appreciate your response Garfie

I know Ali is on the spectrum , but It also feels like she can't just accept that Khaled might just be a normal guy . She seems to be dissecting him constantly, she needs to stop analysing him .

I joked in another thread ...that if BB allowed writing tools , she'd probably be robotically nodding her head
whilst jotting down notes as Khaled is trying to get his
point across.

She may think she's giving her honest direct opinion, but the third degree she's now giving Khaled over his nomination twist - decision is just ridiculous,the guy had to choose something,and either way people would be complaining . A damned if he does & damned if he doesn't situation .

And now hearing on L& L exclusive that Ali was threatening to leave, I'm sorry it just gives me " my game plan failed " energy . I don't think she expected Khaled to stand up to her in such a strong mature way . She obviously sees him as a silly boy or something. But I think he acted alot better than she did ,he explained his reasons. And you can tell it's frustrating for him to constantly be attacked.

He was even trying to persuade her to stay , but I guess she wanted her melodramatic moment. Plus she's still running away from Khaled & dismissing him . He was trying to put their differences aside by looks of it. She's being so difficult.