[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Livia

Agree with all of that. Most women I know, in real life and on here, would have pulled him up at the time. I'm sure all the women on here have had to deal with this kind of stuff at least once in their life, probably more. You have to let them know that sh1t isn't going to fly with you. As for him apologising, once it's said, no amount of apology is going to help you take it back. You just can't unring a bell.

A woman rang into James O Brien yesterday recounting some episode where she and her husband squeezed into a lift and she was the only woman in the lift and a voice from the back said this must be her dream, and her husband had to say that is my wife you are speaking to, and all these years later she recalls it, and at the time she worked as an Equal Opportunity Officer and she couldn't shut down some twerp in a lift ...and James was treating her like she had suffered some terrible abuse....it was comical honestly