[masonbason]

Originally posted by HelenKirby
a) continue to cuddle and kiss them knowing it wouldn't ever lead to a permanent relationship.

OR

b) tell them because you respected them as a friend and didn't want to hurt them anymore than you had already done by not loving them back, stop and say, from now on, our relationship is purely platonic?

I hope most of you will say b) as it really isn't fair on the other person at all.

SO GET NOIRIN OUT!!! She is loving all this attention from all the guys and is basically just chewing them up and spitting them out one by one. Of course, they all fall for her, she's pretty, fit, relatively intelligent and flirty....why shouldn't they fall under her spell? I feel sorry for both Marcus and Siavash. Do you?????

This is what i dont understand this coming from a girl. Tell me how many men play the field. Plenty, My friend has now 5 girls on the go, they dont know hes seeing anyone else, My friend has 4 and i have 1. But if a girl does it, you castigate her. Come on.

She did tell them that she used men through her beauty. I liked her frank comments today, yes you can kiss and all that, but does not mean anything. In the case of marcus, she did nothing. Ok perhaps she sat on his lap and did allow him to draw on her back, but marcus the pervert, should have some control. You dont jump on a girl cause they allowed you to do those things.

I say get marcus out, he is violent, negative, control freak, obsessive, foul mouthed, bullying, he was talking about lisa r the last 6 weeks, he picks on people based on if he could push them. Those are enough reasons not to feel sorry for this sad individual.