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Relationships and communication are not simply about the meanings of words taken in isolation.

It is entirely possible for two people who love (or even simply like) each other to have a relationship where such comments are perfectly normal or acceptable.

I would say it is highly likely that Marcus' mother laughed when she heard it.

I would say it is also highly likely that Marcus' mother would laugh heartily at some of her "defenders" in this thread.