[crystaltreasure]

'I don't want to offend anyone',

I think you just did..subtly your forte.
Women like women that can laugh at themselves and have a sense of humour, personally I prefer women who don't automatically think that because they think are attractive men are going to fall at their knees, its pathetic. Josie has something about her, yes she comfort eats and that is an issue she needs to address but I prefer a woman to be a woman and not starve themselves to stick and bones. I am a healthy looking woman and I am far from being plain and I like Josie.