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Originally Posted by Phlip

Elaborate. How is love wrong?

LOL

Love isn't always hollywood and high contrast colour.

Love can be ugly, blind, immoral and vicious.

You're looking at it from the wrong angle.

Personally my view is, Gays are *******ing stupid man! Do you know much weddings cost? They're expensive and a huge fashion rather than real life necessity.

If you want wedded rights, cool, you've got a civil partnership. I know some people who aren't gay, and are straight, who got a civil partnership for the rights it entails and then later packed it in...

Another angle is... people still see it as a lifestyle choice too and not natural and that's understandable because in a lot of cases it is a lifestyle choice. There are natural facets to it especially in a world of choice that your genetic inheritance makes you inclined to want to have anal sex with men but then that doesn't mean you can't have sex with women either - it's a sexuality choice.

Just because, you say, erm... I don't like having sex with women, you can can't you? A lot of gay man and a lot of ex-gays do it and enjoy it with the right person. This whole "I don't enjoy it with women" smacks of self righteousness especially in a world of gay bars, promiscuity, adultery and a life of multiple partners.

Can you have intercourse? Yes... well fine... the emotions, just like in any situation are varied, multiple and to cut a long story short and get to the point - subjective. You choose the emotion and what it means...

Same situation here.

So... if gays want to get married... erm... hmm... they can but they are walking into something that is wholly sacred to a lot of people and this goes back to the points above about promiscuity, gay hot spots, gay bars and generally gay culture as it has been since the turn of the century and more dominant since the legal changes we say almost half a century ago.

That sacred nature of wedding is globally a man and a woman and as I stated above, Love isn't simple.