[the-gaffer]

Originally Posted by jet

Really? Why do you think many of the HM's relatives think he has then - not just Faye's Mum?

Originally Posted by Cromwell1900

Lets not forget within a few hours of Gem entering, he was putting 2 fingers up to the family way by encouraging Faye to defy her big sis and Smoke.

Hardly a bloke on his best behavior and wanting to impress.

I personally wouldn't go with a smoker, however he was only encouraging his closest confidant in the house to enjoy her liberty of freedom, Faye was obviously smoking before she went into the house, you don't just start for no reason, Jem went in there with an agenda to no give the guy a chance, anyway it's not a normal situation, when you meet the other halves family you're generally on your best behaviour and it only lasts a few hours, not trapped with them 24/7 in what's basically a game of mental endurance, Jem treats Faye like shes 12

[Cromwell1900]

Originally Posted by the-gaffer

I personally wouldn't go with a smoker, however he was only encouraging his closest confidant in the house to enjoy her liberty of freedom, Faye was obviously smoking before she went into the house, you don't just start for no reason, Jem went in there with an agenda to no give the guy a chance, anyway it's not a normal situation, when you meet the other halves family you're generally on your best behaviour and it only lasts a few hours, not trapped with them 24/7 in what's basically a game of mental endurance, Jem treats Faye like shes 12

Well she's 19, i just think Gem had a right to tell her sister to not smoke. I don't think she did smoke before going into the house, as Faye said the smoking was going to stop after BB.

The point for me is don't try and get in the way of family, not in a "krey twins" way but, in that Gem knows better than Aaron what is right for Faye, even if it seems bossy, for me to override Gem in that situation i'd feel like a cheeky so and so.