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Originally Posted by Niall

Just like call her, chat to her, ask her how she is and honestly telling her that you love her will help. If you feel uncomfortable saying it than thats cool but if not then it'll be nice for her to hear that from you, no?

That's really helpful actually. I will ring her tomorrow I think.

Originally Posted by Jords

Think about YOU Caitlin. Ive done lots of worrying about the family issues Ive had and I need to follow my own advice here.

But seriously, like Shaun has said, no need to pick sides, they are both your parents. Its difficult that your mum has flee'd but if I was you Id personally ring her up and tell ask her whats going down and when she is coming back. Do you miss her? If yes, tell her, if not, tell her when you start to (if she hasnt come back beforehand).

Focus on school and what you want out of life, thats all you can really do for now

Thank you jords, this is really helpful too.

But another one of my problems is that I have no idea what I want out of life. I don't know what I want to do, and I don't care about school. I've stopped caring about alot of things