[BBUKAUSFAN]

People have there own way of dealing with deaths. and being with him family might not seem to be what he feels will be suit him.
He has formed a very strong friendship with caroline and i think he feels for comfortable being with her.

Oh a side note you have to remeber he only came out to his family on big brother? like he said they might have know....

[psychtracker]

Originally Posted by jet

You are right, in a way. What we can do though is decide we can't judge a situation we know absolutely nothing about and which Scott has declined to speak of. If he went back into the house just to get everyone's sympathy and attention and that was obvious then it would be hard for a viewer to detach themselves from that. But that is clearly not the case.

Absolutely. If he wasn't that close to her, either didn't really like her or something, then he should carry on. BUT...if he starts moping, or getting sad, i'd be thinking, what are you doing staying on National TV, when if you cared for her, you should be grieving with your family.

[sofialady]

Maybe it's not for me to judge, but I do find it quite baffling that he went back into the house.

How do you cope?

[BigBrotherfan4ever]

I loss my dad 6 weeks ago, & I know if I was in BB & was told that he had died I would leave immediately to be with my family, but I don't think we have the right to judge to what Scott has done in coming back into the house, as people have said people maybe Scott wasn't that close to his sister.

[Cherie]

It looks like Scott is not particularly close to his family. Some people aren't. Not everyone has a close network surrounding them, he obviously wanted to make a point to them as he came out on TV. I dont know his circumstances so I can only judge on what I see, Its up to him how he deals with it as it is a very personal matter. This will split public opinion about him.

[Semtex]

I hope he's ok, but that is for him to judge.

I thought it was a lovely gesture by Becky when he returned, he must have really appreciated being told she wants to pair off Arron with someone else.

Her empathy shines through.

[MrWong]

Originally Posted by BigBrotherfan4ever

I loss my dad 6 weeks ago, & I know if I was in BB & was told that he had died I would leave immediately to be with my family, but I don't think we have the right to judge to what Scott has done in coming back into the house, as people have said people maybe Scott wasn't that close to his sister.

Sorry to hear that BBFan4ever. I lost my mum 5 years ago today.

I know there are a few people on the thread saying Scott might not have been close to his sis but surely he'd want to be there for his parents, they have afterall just lost a child.

I hope staying in the BB house turns out to be the right decision for him and condolences to his family.

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by MrWong

Sorry to hear that BBFan4ever. I lost my mum 5 years ago today.

I know there are a few people on the thread saying Scott might not have been close to his sis but surely he'd want to be there for his parents, they have afterall just lost a child.

I hope staying in the BB house turns out to be the right decision for him and condolences to his family.

That's my point Mr Wong, he obviously isn't close to them, as he came out on BB, or so he says. I find him a bit cold and his eyes are totally flat and emotionless, total speculation here but maybe the reason his parents didnt want him on BB is because his sisters death was imminent. Like I say it will split public opinion, my opinion is he is a pretty cold individual.

[HBB1508]

It's tragic news and my sympathies are with Scott and his family but none of us know the circumstances so really can't judge him - it's his call what he does with his life.

[MrWong]

Originally Posted by CherieB

That's my point Mr Wong, he obviously isn't close to them, as he came out on BB, or so he says. I find him a bit cold and his eyes are totally flat and emotionless, total speculation here but maybe the reason his parents didnt want him on BB is because his sisters death was imminent. Like I say it will split public opinion, my opinion is he is a pretty cold individual.

The Star article says "shock sudden death" Though it is a tabloid so we can never be 100% sure.

I honestly don't think the paranoid, toxic enviroment of the BB house is the best place to grieve, who knows, maybe he's still in shock and might leave in the next few days.

[Razor]

Anyone know how his sister died?

[smeagol]

his sister died and he goes back in bb, wow now thats fame hungry

[bbfan1991]

It is up to none of us to judge how Scott grieves the loss of his sister because we do not know the full facts, people grieve in different ways and Scott's family might have told him to stick it out in the house because it is only a once in a lifetime opportunity, who knows but it might give them some comfort to see him do well in there.

He will obviously be let out for the funeral but I do feel sorry for him and his family at this sad time for them.

[MrWong]

Originally Posted by bbfan1991

It is up to none of us to judge how Scott grieves the loss of his sister because we do not know the full facts, people grieve in different ways and Scott's family might have told him to stick it out in the house because it is only a once in a lifetime opportunity, who knows but it might give them some comfort to see him do well in there.

He will obviously be let out for the funeral but I do feel sorry for him and his family at this sad time for them.

So is your sister dying.

I just hope he doesn't regret staying in the house.
Guilt can be a terrible thing.

[Kizzy]

My god, the poor family.

[bbfan1991]

Originally Posted by jet

The fact hat Scott said he didn't want to talk about it could mean it's not a straighforward situation. Families can be complicated.
He didn't go back in to gain sympathy or play on the situation. He isn't going on and on about it or trying to dampen the atmosphere. He is just being himself - and I admire his lack of guile and honesty. I think he is suffering in his own way - he seems a self contained and dignified sort of person.

I agree, he is perhaps bottling his feelings up and at the same time respecting his families privacy by not wanting to talk about what has happened.

I do think it is unfair some people are labelling him cold though.

[bbfan1991]

Originally Posted by MrWong

So is your sister dying.

I just hope he doesn't regret staying in the house.
Guilt can be a terrible thing.

Maybe he had discussed the situation with his sister before he went in the house and it was her wish that he continue? We do not know all the facts, so it is unfair to cast lots of assumptions.

I think he may have told Caroline about it based on her reaction?

[MrWong]

Originally Posted by bbfan1991

Maybe he had discussed the situation with his sister before he went in the house and it was her wish that he continue? We do not know all the facts, so it is unfair to cast lots of assumptions.

I think he may have told Caroline about it based on her reaction?

Doubtful. The article says it was "shock, sudden death"

[Livia]

I know that it's difficult to judge someone when you don't know them, or anything about their circumstances, but I do find it hard to believe that someone who lost his sister can carry on with the Big Brother thing. I lost someone recently and I couldn't function as a human being. My family propped me up while they themselves were grieving and I don't know what I would have done without them. If my brother had thought his Big Brother experience was more important than his family I would never have spoken to him again.

[tomflint]

I sorry but he shouldn't still be in the house.

Wasn't he struggling in the highlights show yesterday? I'd pull him out.

[tomflint]

I'm sorry but he shouldn't still be in the house.

Wasn't he struggling in the highlights show yesterday? I'd pull him out.

[bbfan1991]

Perhaps Scott might be distant from his sister? Who knows or his family encouraged him to go back in when he briefly left, of course he would still be upset if they were distant.

He probably is waiting for the reality to sink in, process it and then he might have might thoughts to leave but BB need to keep a close eye on him...

[Marc]

His sister?! Christ. Poor guy

[Kazanne]

Ii thought it was a distant cousin or something the way he came back into the house,not sure what his family life is like but surely you'de pull out,out of respect really.

[vickivain]

I respect everyone's opinion and this is just mine but when people are saying not to judge him then why are we watching the show anyway? Ita all about judging... dont be hypocritical... call a spade a spade.
Benedict was correct when he nominated him and his reasons I personally agreed with. When I was watching and saw his reaction I assumed an older person like a grandfather etc but coming here and finding out it was his sister took my breath AWAY! I would not be able to breathe or function if I found out my sister passed away even if the relationship was strained or distant. I hope that since this thread says he left the house hopefully when I watch it tomorrow he will have departed otherwise I wont be able to respect that dude... just my personal feelings tho