[Indy]

Originally Posted by RodHull

Being a thug is one thing, violating a woman with a hairbrush is a beat of leap from there imho.

What he said was nasty, but she didn't hear. It was just bravado in front of his mates and anger, plenty of us have said things in private in moments of anger to our mates that if broadcast would sound awful. I know I have... anyone who says they haven't is a liar frankly. Hes just thick and forgot he was being filmed, forgot how it sounded. TBF after he came out he didn't make a joke of the situation and said to Aaron who tried to laugh about it... 'no it was really bad'

Except, on his girlfriend's facebook wall, people are commenting about how Deana deserves that. Those are, in part, people who actually know him. They're telling her she doesn't need to condemn what he said because it was totally appropriate. That's not momentary bravado - it's conditioned behavior. One comment even said the only thing she needs to be upset with him for is the suggestion he'd cheat on her by violating Deana. (this is paraphrased, as the original is barely legible)

[RodHull]

Originally Posted by fruit_cake

It seemed to me to be something he'd clearly fantasized about before, I might be wrong but it's seems more sinister than you describe there imo

On what planet?? Something he'd fantasized about?? Are you serious... It was clearly said in an outburst of anger and frustration. Clearly misplaced and not called for, but it wasn't like he was sitting down describing calmly what he'd like to do. He happened to be messing with a hairbrush so it just popped into his head.

Like I said most people have said stuff just as bad in private, his crime was not remembering he was on a tv show.

Originally Posted by Indy

Except, on his girlfriend's facebook wall, people are commenting about how Deana deserves that. Those are, in part, people who actually know him. They're telling her she doesn't need to condemn what he said because it was totally appropriate. That's not momentary bravado - it's conditioned behavior. One comment even said the only thing she needs to be upset with him for is the suggestion he'd cheat on her by violating Deana. (this is paraphrased, as the original is barely legible)

How are other peoples comments on a facebook page his fault exactly? And really comments on facebook are not a good indicator of reality.

[Indy]

Originally Posted by RodHull

How are other peoples comments on a facebook page his fault exactly? And really comments on facebook are not a good indicator of reality.

Of course, the opinions of his girlfriend and their circle of friends must have absolutely no bearing on how he acts outside the house. It's merely coincidence they all think his spontaneous outburst is hysterical.