[Kate!]

Same as Vanessa, I have been both cheater and cheated on. For those who know me well enough to think this is out of character, I'll just clarify that both happened in the same relationship, and he cheated on me numerous times first. One night out with a very close male friend turned into more. Was a one off. I wouldn't stay in a relationship like that now, but at the time my self esteem was at rock bottom. I value myself much more now.

Glad you worked it out Pio.