[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by calyman

Benedict's activities are done in the best possible taste while the skanks
are done in the best possible taste (know what I mean?)

No, there is no comparison...
I will never understand why benedicts career choice is seen as acceptable, because he can articulate himself well?..
Because he writes articles for the Guardian?...
ashleigh may be a crude young woman is not very bright and has many insecurities.
I find it really hypocritical that her admittance has lead to a moral outrage, is it only ok to do those kinds of thing for money then like benedict would?

[calyman]

Originally Posted by kizzy

No, there is no comparison...
I will never understand why benedicts career choice is seen as acceptable, because he can articulate himself well?..
Because he writes articles for the Guardian?...
ashleigh may be a crude young woman is not very bright and has many insecurities.
I find it really hypocritical that her admittance has lead to a moral outrage, is it only ok to do those kinds of thing for money then like benedict would?

The difference has just been explained by yourself. Benedict sells sex as a career choice. He wants people to understand sex is a perfectly normal human function, by challenging the prudish regard that sex should be something no one talks about.He does not foist sexual innuendo down others throats, whereas this awful crude and malignant young woman does. She uses sex as a tool for her lack of intelligence, acuity and desire to shock. So you are right, there is no comparison. He is an intelligent decent human, she is not.

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by calyman

The difference has just been explained by yourself. Benedict sells sex as a career choice. He wants people to understand sex is a perfectly normal human function, by challenging the prudish regard that sex should be something no one talks about.He does not foist sexual innuendo down others throats, whereas this awful crude and malignant young woman does. She uses sex as a tool for her lack of intelligence, acuity and desire to shock. So you are right, there is no comparison. He is an intelligent decent human, she is not.

If it is such a normal human function why does is offend you when this woman speaks of it?
He forced many of his views down the throats of his fellow HM's, who squirmed uncomfortably throughout as I recall.
Yes he is intelligent, it is a shame he chooses you use his body rather than his mind to make a living...
Ash is not intelligent which the last time I checked was not a crime.

[calyman]

Originally Posted by kizzy

If it is such a normal human function why does is offend you when this woman speaks of it?
He forced many of his views down the throats of his fellow HM's, who squirmed uncomfortably throughout as I recall.
Yes he is intelligent, it is a shame he chooses you use his body rather than his mind to make a living...
Ash is not intelligent which the last time I checked was not a crime.

To answer your question, please reread my previous post. I thought I had made quite clear the difference i how they talk about sex. To use an analogy, consider Benedict as a Sex Education teacher and consider Ashley as a sniggering, salacious fool. There is your distinction.

As for selling his body for sex, that is his choice, I do not share your shame about this.

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by calyman

To answer your question, please reread my previous post. I thought I had made quite clear the difference i how they talk about sex. To use an analogy, consider Benedict as a Sex Education teacher and consider Ashley as a sniggering, salacious fool. There is your distinction.

As for selling his body for sex, that is his choice, I do not share your shame about this.

I would have considered benedict a sex education teacher when he was employed as one, now he works in the porn industry.
And there we have it, 'that is his choice'
He can do and say whatever he likes, ashleigh can too...She may be monosyllabic but she is as entitled as benedict to her say

[calyman]

Originally Posted by kizzy

I would have considered benedict a sex education teacher when he was employed as one, now he works in the porn industry.
And there we have it, 'that is his choice'
He can do and say whatever he likes, ashleigh can too...She may be monosyllabic but she is as entitled as benedict to her say

You are talking about two separate issues and conflating them. Yes Benedict works in the sex industry, that's his choice. No one who doesn't want to, is forced to watch his films.

As to their respective approaches towards sex, Benedict seeks to raise awareness of sex and sexual health issues. Ashley uses perverse talk of sex as a means of social interaction. She may be entitled to her views but is not entitled to disgust others by espousing them.

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by calyman

You are talking about two separate issues and conflating them. Yes Benedict works in the sex industry, that's his choice. No one who doesn't want to, is forced to watch his films.

As to their respective approaches towards sex, Benedict seeks to raise awareness of sex and sexual health issues. Ashley uses perverse talk of sex as a means of social interaction. She may be entitled to her views but is not entitled to disgust others by espousing them.

I am not conflating anything, I couldn't be clearer in my mind on this issue.
If I wished to have my awareness raised I will look to a more reliable source than a man who has sex for money.
Anyone who does not wish to hear ashleigh may switch off at any point when she appears on screen....

[rayheartbliss]

Originally Posted by calyman

To answer your question, please reread my previous post. I thought I had made quite clear the difference i how they talk about sex. To use an analogy, consider Benedict as a Sex Education teacher and consider Ashley as a sniggering, salacious fool. There is your distinction.

As for selling his body for sex, that is his choice, I do not share your shame about this.

THIS.


but the word slut/***** is not acceptable, i like seeing people who are so open about their sexuality, but that doesnt make them a slut