[the truth]

Originally Posted by Zee

I don't judge her and others like her for what they're doing - fair play, money is money and she needs it. I just worry about the future ramifications for her specifically. This is now a news story that is out there - she'll probably never be able to get a job in the future where people won't some day realise who she is and what she used to do. Imagine sitting in an office wondering if everyone there had seen you naked on webcam? Horrible.

surely everyone judges others? how do you judge the 30 year old man who ran off with the 15 year old girl, or anyone bullied you at school etc? isnt that judgement?

[Z]

Originally Posted by the truth

surely everyone judges others? how do you judge the 30 year old man who ran off with the 15 year old girl, or anyone bullied you at school etc? isnt that judgement?

Weird thing to get pedantic about. Let me rephrase my post: I don't judge her and others like her negatively for what they are doing - on a moral level I don't think there's anything to be ashamed of. If you're happy in your own skin and you want to make money from that confidence, then good for you, a lot of people wouldn't be comfortable doing that at all and it's a pretty safe way to earn money because you're doing it from the comfort of your home on your own terms, it's not the same as going out on a street corner and getting in a stranger's car or doing it in a bar as a pole dancer or whatever.

Of course we all judge people, I just didn't feel like I had to clarify what I meant.