[reece(:]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..it's strange how we just get 'an impression' of people on the internet/forums because I always think of you as someone with lots of confidence, Reece..(not over-confident or anything..)..and obviously you're a lovely looking guy as well...someone who would find it maybe easier than some others would, to talk to someone they liked, sort of thing...

Really?! I'm very self conscious and always think if I text someone I'm annoying them or what not

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by reece(:

Really?! I'm very self conscious and always think if I text someone I'm annoying them or what not

..I always find people generally quite fascinating..not in a weird/dodgy way lol...but personality traits, no matter how they're perceived by others are quite complicated in that it's how we perceive them ourselves...it's like you know how you can see a really beautiful person/a celebrity, say..and when interviewed they will say, oh I feel/felt ugly...and people often think whoa, you're just saying that, that's ridiculous...?...but it doesn't matter what other people see/what the outside appearance is, because people can look in the mirror and see something totally different/nothing but flaws because 'beauty' or feeling beautiful is what they feel about themselves/confidence/self esteem etc....but they give this 'outer appearance' of carrying themselves as if they see the same as others do...I think it's more complicated with personality traits because if you seem confident then people will assume you are and so if you liked someone and found it difficult/awkward to talk to them, then they would probably assume that was because you weren't that interested, maybe....

..hmm, I think I've got so far off topic that, that doesn't even make sense to me lol...I'm having one of those hard to put together thought process mornings, Reece...generally a bit tired atm...

[reece(:]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..I always find people generally quite fascinating..not in a weird/dodgy way lol...but personality traits, no matter how they're perceived by others are quite complicated in that it's how we perceive them ourselves...it's like you know how you can see a really beautiful person/a celebrity, say..and when interviewed they will say, oh I feel/felt ugly...and people often think whoa, you're just saying that, that's ridiculous...?...but it doesn't matter what other people see/what the outside appearance is, because people can look in the mirror and see something totally different/nothing but flaws because 'beauty' or feeling beautiful is what they feel about themselves/confidence/self esteem etc....but they give this 'outer appearance' of carrying themselves as if they see the same as others do...I think it's more complicated with personality traits because if you seem confident then people will assume you are and so if you liked someone and found it difficult/awkward to talk to them, then they would probably assume that was because you weren't that interested, maybe....

..hmm, I think I've got so far off topic that, that doesn't even make sense to me lol...I'm having one of those hard to put together thought process mornings, Reece...generally a bit tired atm...

Very deep for this early in the morning Ammi .. but I do agree..

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by reece(:

Very deep for this early in the morning Ammi .. but I do agree..

..haha, yeah I'm a bit of a morning thinker Reece, but sometimes it's all a bit of a jumble putting those thoughts together...it's one of those mornings today...