[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

If you LOVE someone and they love you,why is the marriage thing so important? you can live together as though you are married that is not illegal so why crave the piece of paper.isn't it a religious ceremony anyway, one of the things that people seem so against regarding this.

My gay cousin and his partner of nearly 20 years have just had a civil partnership, the money they spent was unreal ,VERY flamboyant ,if it were me I would rather spend that money on a brilliant holiday ,nothing changed with their lives ,so it seems money they could have spent elsewhere, but at the end of the day ,it was theri money and they spent it as they wished

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by daniel-lewis-1985

I don't find him attractive but cant help being drawn in by his eyes lol.

I would

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

My gay cousin and his partner of nearly 20 years have just had a civil partnership, the money they spent was unreal ,VERY flamboyant ,if it were me I would rather spend that money on a brilliant holiday ,nothing changed with their lives ,so it seems money they could have spent elsewhere, but at the end of the day ,it was theri money and they spent it as they wished

Yes there is that too,weddings now are so expensive,and even after all that some don't last.

[Z]

I don't think getting married is something I'd want to spend heaps of money on - I'd just have a civil ceremony and maybe go out for a nice dinner with the people who matter afterwards, none of this 4-5 figure sum nonsense.

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

I would

Gorgeous,gorgeous man,just perfect,imo of course.

[Roy Mars III]

why anyone would want to get married is beyond me

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Zee

I don't think getting married is something I'd want to spend heaps of money on - I'd just have a civil ceremony and maybe go out for a nice dinner with the people who matter afterwards, none of this 4-5 figure sum nonsense.

Very sensible Zee and you end up being just as happy as if you got married.

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

Yes there is that too,weddings now are so expensive,and even after all that some don't last.

No expense spared,can you imagine holiday they could have had ? my niece and her fiance have lived together nearly 30 yrs, got 3 grown up children and as married as me and my hubby are in their eyes

[daniel-lewis-1985]

Im such a straight man though its unreal I never want to get married haha im just preaching facts which I do actually believe and respect but staying with someone for eternity just wigs me out.

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

Gorgeous,gorgeous man,just perfect,imo of course.

Yes i wouldnt push him out of my bed !!

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by daniel-lewis-1985

Im such a straight man though its unreal I never want to get married haha im just preaching facts which I do actually believe and respect but staying with someone for eternity just wigs me out.

That will change when you find "the one"

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

Yes i wouldnt push him out of my bed !!

If I catch him in your bed Chuff,I'll pull him out

[Z]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

Very sensible Zee and you end up being just as happy as if you got married.

Yeah, I couldn't be bothered with the hassle of inviting people/seating plans/planning dinner/speeches/hiring venues....... much easier to have a civil ceremony to get the deed done and that be that. It's what my parents did, my mum didn't have a wedding dress or any of that.

[daniel-lewis-1985]

Originally Posted by Zee

Yeah, I couldn't be bothered with the hassle of inviting people/seating plans/planning dinner/speeches/hiring venues....... much easier to have a civil ceremony to get the deed done and that be that. It's what my parents did, my mum didn't have a wedding dress or any of that.

My mother never went with the crowd and thought spending money on a wedding was bull****.

She made her own dress and I have to be honest she looked like sh!t lol.

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Zee

Yeah, I couldn't be bothered with the hassle of inviting people/seating plans/planning dinner/speeches/hiring venues....... much easier to have a civil ceremony to get the deed done and that be that. It's what my parents did, my mum didn't have a wedding dress or any of that.

And just think of all the stress people go through organising a wedding and having to invite people they don't really like,LOL.

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by daniel-lewis-1985

My mother never went with the crowd and thought spending money on a wedding was bull****.

She made her own dress and I have to be honest she looked like sh!t lol.

I wasn't expecting the end bit

[daniel-lewis-1985]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

And just think of all the stress people go through organising a wedding and having to invite people they don't really like,LOL.

Plus the agony of waiting for responses to invitations to see if someones bringing a plus 1.

God I need a drink!

[Jezzy]

Haha, love you all. Why do you have to do that sh** to prove you love someone? I got married in black with 13 guests. Unsurprisingly I divorced.

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

If I catch him in your bed Chuff,I'll pull him out

He would be too busy to know you were there !!

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by daniel-lewis-1985

Plus the agony of waiting for responses to invitations to see if someones bringing a plus 1.

God I need a drink!

I really feel like getting off my head, but had one pigging lager on launch night and the worst nightmare Ive ever had, i think it didnt mix well with my tablets ,darent have another and Ive got loads left from Xams

[Z]

Originally Posted by daniel-lewis-1985

My mother never went with the crowd and thought spending money on a wedding was bull****.

She made her own dress and I have to be honest she looked like sh!t lol.

I wasn't expecting that post to end how it did, LOL! Your poor wee mum. Good on her for making her own dress though (or trying! Haha)

Originally Posted by Kazanne

And just think of all the stress people go through organising a wedding and having to invite people they don't really like,LOL.

Oh GOD I couldn't even handle that, I can just imagine my parents wanting people invited, my brother wanted people invited... no, not having any of that nonsense if I ever get married!

[Bluerang1]

Originally Posted by daniel-lewis-1985

Me and my ex walked through Westfield shopping centre once and got verbally abused by a gang of lads and laughed at by parents with children.

Doesn't show much progression does it.

So being gay and of a certain race do kind of go hand in hand. Both have gone through hell in the past.

That's extremely ignorant. It's like saying being born abled is the same as being born disabled because you're born when there's clearly a physical or mental difference. Don't you dare compare the struggles of blacks, Jews, and other oppressed races to being gay and not being able to marry and adopt. You'll reply but I'm done with this thread now.

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

He would be too busy to know you were there !!

Chuff,stop being a strumpet,I'm upset now

[Z]

Originally Posted by Bluerang1

That's extremely ignorant. It's like saying being born abled is the same as being born disabled because you're born when there's clearly a physical or mental difference. Don't you dare compare the struggles of blacks, Jews, and other oppressed races to being gay and not being able to marry and adopt. You'll reply but I'm done with this thread now.

Well this is one of the most ridiculous posts I've read today.

[Jezzy]

chuff, stop being a jasmine! Gerard is kazanne's <3