[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..we don't 'see' though, we have 'one side' from a biased mother, which can be slanted by her and also by the newspapers as well and quite often are, which is why really there isn't much else to say on it...in general though, not in this thing in particular, I don't believe a 4yr old should be able to do what they want....

I see that, you don't have 'one side' you have the report including the opinion of the playgroup.
We will have to agree to disagree ammi, I believe that tots should be allowed to play make believe if they like it's part of being a child and there's plenty of time to adjust, well that's my opinion anyway.

[Ammi]

..oh I totally agree with the 'make believe' bit..children can make believe either at home/playschool/friend's houses etc whatever they're wearing, it's all imagination...it's a question on his clothing and whether it was something the playschool allowed or not because 'dress up clothing' isn't what is generally worn for playschool on a regular basis...


..EDIT:..when I say that I don't believe that 4y olds should be allowed to do what they want, I don't mean in terms of stifling their imagination or play but in terms of structure in their lives and having to adhere to structured situations..we all have to, to some extent...