[Pink Pegasus]

Her behaviour is appalling at times. I would detest her if I was living in the house with her.

However I must admit there's part of me that feels sorry for her. She has MASSIVE anger issues and possibly a drinking problem too. I don't think she is able to control her emotions at all. She comes across as a pretty messed up individual , who just doesn't even know how to change and sometimes seems very annoyed with herself/her own reactions. A bit lost and lashing out all the time.

I always feel sorry for her targets though who bear the savage and cruel brunt of all her built up anger. She can be quite the bully which is very uncomfortable to watch.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by xPinkpegasusx

Her behaviour is appalling at times. I would detest her if I was living in the house with her.

However I must admit there's part of me that feels sorry for her. She has MASSIVE anger issues and possibly a drinking problem too. I don't think she is able to control her emotions at all. She comes across as a pretty messed up individual , who just doesn't even know how to change and sometimes seems very annoyed with herself/her own reactions. A bit lost and lashing out all the time.

I always feel sorry for her targets though who bear the savage and cruel brunt of all her built up anger. She can be quite the bully which is very uncomfortable to watch.

..yeah I pretty much agree with this Pinkpegasus..and hey btw, I always enjoy reading your thoughts about housemates...I think she is a fairly messed up person and you can often see her frustrations with herself but she can't control it so no matter how much she's aware of her flaws, she just keeps disappointing herself so I think her 'self hatred' is a vicious circle and just goes on and on...there are certain things that I feel empathy for and I think she's probably had a pretty tough life and has had to have a mind set of 'self preservation' and survival so is fairly much a 'fighter' and assumes everyone is against her ..and in a way they are/we are but that's because she self destructs and lashes out at others in the process....anyway I might be completely wrong about all of that and it's all her 'outside of the house' life anyway and in the house, no matter what her reasons/psychology/life etc, the results are the same in that she's fairly awful and harsh to people and is just an extreme negative person...and yeah, you could also describe her as a bit of a bully and that's never good to watch....

[AnnieK]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..yeah I pretty much agree with this Pinkpegasus..and hey btw, I always enjoy reading your thoughts about housemates...I think she is a fairly messed up person and you can often see her frustrations with herself but she can't control it so no matter how much she's aware of her flaws, she just keeps disappointing herself so I think her 'self hatred' is a vicious circle and just goes on and on...there are certain things that I feel empathy for and I think she's probably had a pretty tough life and has had to have a mind set of 'self preservation' and survival so is fairly much a 'fighter' and assumes everyone is against her ..and in a way they are/we are but that's because she self destructs and lashes out at others in the process....anyway I might be completely wrong about all of that and it's all her 'outside of the house' life anyway and in the house, no matter what her reasons/psychology/life etc, the results are the same in that she's fairly awful and harsh to people and is just an extreme negative person...and yeah, you could also describe her as a bit of a bully and that's never good to watch....

I completely agree with this. Things that have happened in her life have shaped the person she is and that's not a likeable person. That's no excuse and she could address the issues she has but we've seen the odd chink in her armour that shows deep down there is a heart.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by AnnieK

I completely agree with this. Things that have happened in her life have shaped the person she is and that's not a likeable person. That's no excuse and she could address the issues she has but we've seen the odd chink in her armour that shows deep down there is a heart.

..I think though Annie that to address the issues that she knows she has, she would have to like herself more to feel she 'deserved' that and I don't see any self liking there at all...hopefully one day she will though and maybe 'turn her life around'..but maybe also she doesn't want to because who and what she is gives her a 'celebrity'...