[Liam-]

Originally Posted by Hayden

Thank you for being honest and keeping it 100 with me.

I understand the latter half of your post, but personally I feel I shouldn't be judged because of who I talk to/get along with because I try and get along with everyone Is it just certain individuals or the "group" as a whole? Because there genuinely are some funny, friendly people who I have never seen do anything directly malicious or rule-breaking.

I would hope the mods would not lock this thread as this is a genuine question and I think it's better to beef out the issues rather than ignore them.

Yeah in a perfect world you wouldn't be, but as the saying goes, if you lay with dogs you're gonna catch fleas
As for what i don't like, it's the majority of the people's attitudes towards other members, feeling the need to be so awful and spiteful towards people they don't know just to get a laugh, i know it's not all of you because like i said, i happen to like you, but if you openly associate with said people who do those things, it will obviously give the wrong impression of you, whether you think that's right or wrong.

And whenever we do 'beef it out' it causes havoc on here with certain people coming on and derailing discussions that could be had maturely and rationally

[Headie]

Originally Posted by LiamPRW

Yeah in a perfect world you wouldn't be, but as the saying goes, if you lay with dogs you're gonna catch fleas
As for what i don't like, it's the majority of the people's attitudes towards other members, feeling the need to be so awful and spiteful towards people they don't know just to get a laugh, i know it's not all of you because like i said, i happen to like you, but if you openly associate with said people who do those things, it will obviously give the wrong impression of you, whether you think that's right or wrong.

And whenever we do 'beef it out' it causes havoc on here with certain people coming on and derailing discussions that could be had maturely and rationally

I totally understand what you're saying, but I can honestly say there are about 2 or 3 people who have those views and say nasty things to provoke people, and everyone else is actually really friendly and kind if you get to know them. We can't really stop those 2 or 3 people from having their views... if that makes sense...

[Liam-]

Originally Posted by Hayden

I totally understand what you're saying, but I can honestly say there are about 2 or 3 people who have those views and say nasty things to provoke people, and everyone else is actually really friendly and kind if you get to know them. We can't really stop those 2 or 3 people from having their views... if that makes sense...

Yeah obviously you can't stop them, but to then make excuses for them and pass it off as 'slaying' 'weave snatching' or 'spilling the tea' - which again, i know not all of you do - is imo, just as bad as the act itself, it not only justifies what they do and say, but it gives them an audience to play to.

[Headie]

Originally Posted by LiamPRW

Yeah obviously you can't stop them, but to then make excuses for them and pass it off as 'slaying' 'weave snatching' or 'spilling the tea' - which again, i know not all of you do - is imo, just as bad as the act itself, it not only justifies what they do and say, but it gives them an audience to play to.

Mhmm, I know and as you've said most of us don't egg them on, but even without people laughing/encouraging them, there's nothing stopping them from still doing what they do and then the majority of us being slandered or looked down upon for something we can't change

Like, if one of your friends got sent to jail, you wouldn't want to be known as a criminal or w/e but you'd still want to talk to your friend because it's almost impossible just to forget everything good they've done and been nice to you

[Liam-]

Originally Posted by Hayden

Mhmm, I know and as you've said most of us don't egg them on, but even without people laughing/encouraging them, there's nothing stopping them from still doing what they do and then the majority of us being slandered or looked down upon for something we can't change

Like, if one of your friends got sent to jail, you wouldn't want to be known as a criminal or w/e but you'd still want to talk to your friend because it's almost impossible just to forget everything good they've done and been nice to you

Meh, we're obviously never going to agree on some points tbh

But personally, if i see my 'friends' being horrible to other people, or allowing other people to be horrible about people i like, i cut ties with them.. like i have done on here recently, but that's just my point of view.

[Daniel.]

Originally Posted by LiamPRW

Meh, we're obviously never going to agree on some points tbh

But personally, if i see my 'friends' being horrible to other people, or allowing other people to be horrible about people i like, i cut ties with them.. like i have done on here recently, but that's just my point of view.

I'm sure this is about me