[Withano]

Still, she's allowed to be upset by fat jokes.

[Griffin5779]

Originally Posted by Withano

Still, she's allowed to be upset by fat jokes.

Sure..and I'm allowed to have no sympathy for her

[Withano]

Originally Posted by Griffin5779

Sure..and I'm allowed to have no sympathy for her

It shouldn't matter what the joke is. if somebody makes a joke, or indeed, comments seriously, on somebody's physical appearance and you don't react with sympathy to the victim or a little angst towards the Attacker, it probably says more about you than everybody else involved.

[Griffin5779]

Originally Posted by Withano

It shouldn't matter what the joke is. if somebody makes a joke, or indeed, comments seriously, on somebody's physical appearance and you don't react with sympathy to the victim or a little angst towards the Attacker, it probably says more about you than everybody else involved.

he doesn't comment serious..he pokes fun....I'm as fit as a bag of crisps and as strong as a jelly baby and i thought it was hilarious. I've always poked fun with friends and they always poke fun with me and i wouldn't be the least bit bother by the joke said in a good humored way ...He is a nice guy and you making him out to be horrible

Victim and attacker..you cheapen the words when you portray it like that and it should offend anyone who had truly abused verbally or otherwise

[Withano]

Originally Posted by Griffin5779

he doesn't comment serious..he pokes fun....I'm as fit as a bag of crisps and as strong as a jelly baby and i thought it was hilarious. I've always poked fun with friends and they always poke fun with me and i wouldn't be the least bit bother by the joke said in a good humored way ...He is a nice guy and you making him out to be horrible

Victim and attacker..you cheapen the words when you portray it like that and it should offend anyone who had truly abused verbally or otherwise

Maybe that's the difference.. They're not friends and he isn't a nice person.. Jokes that make others upset are not okay.. Obviously.. And to repeat the jokes that weren't okay the first time round is proof to me that he isn't a nice person.

[Griffin5779]

Originally Posted by Withano

Maybe that's the difference.. They're not friends and he isn't a nice person.. Jokes that make others upset are not okay.. Obviously.. And to repeat the jokes that weren't okay the first time round is proof to me that he isn't a nice person.

i guess that depends how you define friends? are Danny and jack friends? nick and harry? They have a level of familiarity from a shared experience..Tasks done together..laughs shared...dinners...life stories exchanged...that is friends enough to me to poke fun...

you know like chloe..making a joke about Sam fingering herself..but i guess if she said "you should watch gold finger AND you are as fit as a packet of crisps" then it would be horrible and you could tell chloe was not a nice person

[Withano]

Originally Posted by Griffin5779

i guess that depends how you define friends? are Danny and jack friends? nick and harry? They have a level of familiarity from a shared experience..Tasks done together..laughs shared...dinners...life stories exchanged...that is friends enough to me to poke fun...

you know like chloe..making a joke about Sam fingering herself..but i guess if she said "you should watch gold finger AND you are as fit as a packet of crisps" then it would be horrible and you could tell chloe was not a nice person

It sounds like you're saying that Chloe making sex jokes about Sam are inappropriate but Marc making fat jokes about Chloe are hilarious?