Please never feel insecure about being passionate about something- you need to believe that your opinion is as valid as anyone else's,
because it is. Be more confident, girl!
And I originally liked Georgina but have gone off her a bit now due to the moaning. I'm not fussed either way by Emma. I didn't like either Marco or Laura due to their behaviour, but I am interested to see more of Laura's character and how she might develop without Marco, but that's not saying I like or dislike her- I am withholding judgement until I've seen more.
Although I dislike much of Marco's behaviour, he seemed better when he was calmer last night and I did feel a little sad that he had chosen to do some of the things he did which resulted in his early eviction. And I would feel sad to think no-one was there for him, but I also think his behaviour and his lack of responsibility probably drives others away. I feel sad, too, as I see him almost as an Amy Winehouse character- a car crash waiting to happen- but I am hoping his early eviction and people's negativity towards him might be the best thing that could have happened to him, as it might make him confront himself and make the changes he needs to in order to have a happier life.
These are my opinions- they are not right or wrong, as that is the very nature of opinions. However, I have the right to express them, and to change them as more information becomes available, just as you have the right to also. Never forget that.
We can also like people but not their behaviour, just as we can dislike people but find some of their behaviour amusing. People are not black and white, but are more complex, and that's why opinions will differ. The thing is no-one can say your opinions are wrong, especially when you can give valid evidence for having them.
The main point is don't be pushed into doubting yourself or apologising when you make valid opinions that others don't agree with. My opinions differ to yours, but I would never make you feel pressured into changing them or apologising for them, or threaten to target your favourite as you had made a negative observation about my favourite! I'd hope we would just respect each other's views, and agree to differ! I just want you to believe in your views, and stand up for yourself and what you believe!
And that's the end of the Garfie advice for today!
Alex,
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