[Ammi]

Originally Posted by armand.kay

Yeah he even has moments in the middle of his shouting when he starts lowering his voice and tries to reason

I think the sportsday argument showed a more vulnerable side to him. When he was apologising to Jackson he was talking about how he felt like **** when everyone was having a go at him. That's when his temper made the most sense to me and I could kind of relate.

..it also rationalised and showed a huge strength in him, I think Armand...'feeling as though I'm being laughed at makes me feel quite rubbish about myself..'..and that's one of the biggest things, to be able to identify that because it's an obvious thing as it would be a fairly rubbish thing for any of us to feel..but for him, he's probably been 'laughed at/mocked' more than the average person because of his culture etc and feeling an 'outsider' in meainstream at school, you know...it's those things that cause us pain and the type of pain that have such effects on our behaviour habits...great emotional pain so often projects as anger as well...I think that he has huge strengths/intelligence and wisdom as a person to be able to identify and rationalise on reflection the way he did...(he's just a little work in progress and not completed yet, is all....but then aren't we all, no matter what our ages etc and he's such a young man ..)....