[joeysteele]

I agree in part with the OP, Heavy D got off very lightly here, he was looking for trouble, bear was not shouting, the bedroom lights were not off and most were not in bed anyway.

However for the aggressive throwing of an object,damaging property, then the formal warning is justified and so would be a final one too.

However heavy D, really instigated this and had been determined to do so once given the chance, on the other side, Bear is responsible for his own behaviour, and had he handled this better and more calmly, could have got a far better outcome.