[Northern Monkey]

Originally Posted by Ammi

...indeed, of course not because that wouldn't have been the Bear who had to balance out with the 'charm' and the humour as well, while he was pushing people to their very limits and trying for the inevitable of negativity that it was going to bring...he hasn't 'kept it light' though, there is real spite and callous disregard/lack of empathy in his game-plan and the thing is, when someone antagonises/goads etc to the consistent and relentless extent that he has, it's always going to release things that he has no control over and the very worst of people....he's been the perpetrator so it's really not hard for him to maintain his mask, while others have not been so in his game...I condone nothing of any bad or extreme reactions from others and I don't defend them at all...but I don't think that any of us forum people would defend/laugh with or at/find entertainment or charm etc in any troll that was pushing our own buttons to the very limit and then laughing at us and saying...oooo, you upset then, my goodness me.....and again and again and again and again...and that's what he basically is, a troll....

I thought James handled him perfectly when he poured the coffee over Bear.That's Bear's level and Bear left him alone after that because he knew he'd met his match.What James didn't do is threaten his life in any way.If Renee can only revert to that level when someone annoys her then she shouldn't have been put in the house.It is inevitable that you will meet annoying characters in there.That's the name of the game.

[Ellen]

Originally Posted by Northern Monkey

I thought James handled him perfectly when he poured the coffee over Bear.That's Bear's level and Bear left him alone after that because he knew he'd met his match.What James didn't do is threaten his life in any way.If Renee can only revert to that level when someone annoys her then she shouldn't have been put in the house.It is inevitable that you will meet annoying characters in there.That's the name of the game.

Didn't Renee pour water on him? He didn't leave her alone though.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Northern Monkey

I thought James handled him perfectly when he poured the coffee over Bear.That's Bear's level and Bear left him alone after that because he knew he'd met his match.What James didn't do is threaten his life in any way.If Renee can only revert to that level when someone annoys her then she shouldn't have been put in the house.It is inevitable that you will meet annoying characters in there.That's the name of the game.

..I love the playing down of 'when someone annoys'...(I feel Bear would be disappointed in that choice of words as well with all of his efforts and hoping they've been appreciated to their fullest..)...anyways, as I say ..I don't condone Renee's recent reactions/words... but I think 'breaking people' as he has can never be seen as not spiteful or nasty or justified just because it shows 'their capability/or capacity' etc...just because some have held together in a better way, really doesn't justify/excuse or have any bearing...and no respect even for the extreme emotions that he's provoked and poked but just often 'making light' of those as well....anyways, I don't choose to spend any more moments of my day in the discussion of Bear so I'm off to start my day and hope that you enjoy yours, Northern Monkey....