[TomC]

Sooooo...

i went home for the week last week - by the end I'd realized that my 'obsession' with him had been very unhealthy. I felt much better about it when I returned to uni - open to other things, and actually, was ready to throw this guy if he didn't show immediate interest the next time I tried.

So, today I tried to organize a meet up - he gave a kind of flaky response, so I told him (because at this point I was pretty much done with it anyway) that he needs to be more honest with people. He didn't take this well! He said I was being entitled, and that I needed to calm down and that there was now no chance of a second date after a bit of a hostile exchange.

Whilst this was for the best (and I am so glad he said this to me now, rather than 10 days ago or so when it would really have hurt my feelings), it's a shame the chapter is well and truly over, and tbh what he said wasn't the nicest.