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Originally Posted by rusticgal
She called Kim out for her outrageous opinions because she wasn't a mother...well Nicola is a mother...so to vent such opinion against one sibling to another is out of order IMO.
Of course she is entitled to an opinion...but unfortunately Nicola is unable to put the point across in any kind of tactful way. Would she like someone dissing one of her children against another...NO. So don't do unto others...
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Okay maybe I'm missing the point but I'm sure her point was that Kim can't really make comments about how Nic's kids would be disappointed and was saying "Kim, you're not a mum so you wouldn't know how it'd feel to hear that", whereas she saying Edward's alright but she doesn't like John is different. John and Edward are different people albeit related, and sayng you don't like how one of them acts is a little different to, how Nicola interpreted it, being called a 'bad mum' (she said "if my kids aren't proud of me then that must mean I'm a bad mum", or words to that effect)
I think it'd be a bit different given her kids are too young to see CBB so she's clearly gonna be a bit :/ if a random adult cares more about a kid they don't know to their sibling, but I'm sure she realises her kids have friends that get along better with one sibling than another. When her kids reach mid 20s and they're acting up, I'm sure she'd think "they're individuals and have different personalities, so I don't see a problem with someone liking one more than the other". If they were indentical in more than looks, I'd get your point, but I don't see a problem tbh