[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by Nancy.

I was going to respond to this thread earlier, but it's turned into such a mess, it's hard to know where to start.

Someone referred to me (along with a few others) as a "Cat lady" in here on Thursday, and that person is on this very page and still denying it. I've seen that word used three times in the past week alone, so I have no idea why some say it's mostly aimed at those on FB. Maybe the reason why some don't find it offensive is because it isn't directed at them and it's coming from a member from their clique?

I'd also like to add that whenever an eviction result comes in, I usually stay away from TIBB to avoid any sort of confrontation, but upon visiting the forum on Friday morning, it was full of Isobelle supporters in Lotan threads gloating and expressing their joy with a display of gifs and smilies. This kind of behaviour needs nipping in the bud - and on both sides. At the end of the day, all this childish nonsense needs to stop and people need to grow up and get over themselves, (myself included). It would be nice if we could all get along, but it's never going to happen. The mods have made their points clear, so we should all now be aware of what's tolerated and what isn't. No excuses.

"Cat lady" is used often and is nothing whatsoever to do with Facebook, its an attack on other fans of hm8s and has been for years and yes i know who it was ,but of course they wont admit to it .....I usually avoid eviction night and as you say reading though the thread the next morning makes me glad I did, as i said earlier the mods need to get a grip on here before there is only the "clique" left on here

[Greg!]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

as i said earlier the mods need to get a grip on here before there is only the "clique" left on here

Aka ban people that have a different opinion from yourself

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by Greg!

Aka ban people that have a different opinion from yourself

Well lets be honest, this is what most members seem to want. Want us to get tough on insults, but if we were as tough as they want us to be, yes the members they want banned would be banned, but they would also likely be banned themselves.

Anyway, this discussion is very much needed and I think its going relatively well so far so can members stop sniping at each other and making this personal as I don't want to have to close this thread