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Originally Posted by Greg!

How does she? Just a baseless claim.

Well, just compare her to the wonderful Isabelle, the winner of BB, who REFUSED to be a victim, who wasn't wrapped up in herself and her woes and cared about OTHER people. Isabelle won people around by being brave, kind, considerate and generous. If Sarah could look outward beyond herself and her self pity and GIVE to others she would be a happier person and others would warm to her.
You get what you give. Give out negative signals, and they will come back to you in a double whammy from people who aren't any nicer than you are being.
Give out positive, giving, generous vibes, and they can never hurt you.