[rusticgal]

If I had low esteem...and then got targeted by gross nasty bitches for shedding too many tears...and my only support was CHAD....I would melt into his arms too..

I really dislike showmances...but Sarah is vulnerable and IMO has been targeted quite unnecessarily. She's obviously been a bit of a melt down in there and probably a bit needy BUT to have people like Paul, Jemma and that self absorbed trollop pick on her the way they have, I think she has dealt with them well. She stood up to Paul and Jemma and didn't take their ****..
Paul apologised..but that's what Paul does best, not wanting to be seen as the bad guy/..or simply knowing he can be a complete dick at the best of times.
Jemma only apologised because Paul did and didn't want to fall out with him.
Chad has been her Knight in shining Armour...and he plays it well cos he is such a cool dude.
He broke with his 'girlfriend' before entering the house..maybe keeping his options open. Sarah seems to have 'someone' but it sounds like a recent relationship.
No big deal on either part....they are obviously smitten and of any showmances seen on BB this one is different. They haven't come together for the sake of camera time..not on Sarah's part anyway. It means a lot for her to have him by her side...and he just happens to be ****ing gorgeous

[tanussa]

I wouldnt mind standing in for her if she needs a night off. oooh, my imaginations running away with itself now

[rusticgal]

Originally Posted by tanussa

I wouldnt mind standing in for her if she needs a night off. oooh, my imaginations running away with itself now

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[Jase.]

Originally Posted by rusticgal

If I had low esteem...and then got targeted by gross nasty bitches for shedding too many tears...and my only support was CHAD....I would melt into his arms too..

And I think people need to remember this.

Before people jump on her, it's not like she's gone in there and hooked up with him after a few days because she fancies him or whatever/to grab some screen time. Of course she's going to feel confused/conflicted about him when he has literally been the only person in the house to comfort her when she's been in some ridiculously uncomfortable and nasty situations.

It still doesn't excuse anything if she does have a boyfriend, but I certainly understand to a degree why she has (potentially) developed feelings for him.

[rusticgal]

Originally Posted by Ja$e

And I think people need to remember this.

Before people jump on her, it's not like she's gone in there and hooked up with him after a few days because she fancies him or whatever to grab some screen time. Of course she's going to feel confused/conflicted about him when he has literally been the only person in the house to comfort her when she's been in some ridiculously uncomfortable and nasty situations.

It still doesn't excuse anything if she does have a boyfriend, but I certainly understand to a degree why she has (potentially) developed feelings for him.

[Miranda123]

Originally Posted by rusticgal

If I had low esteem...and then got targeted by gross nasty bitches for shedding too many tears...and my only support was CHAD....I would melt into his arms too..

I really dislike showmances...but Sarah is vulnerable and IMO has been targeted quite unnecessarily. She's obviously been a bit of a melt down in there and probably a bit needy BUT to have people like Paul, Jemma and that self absorbed trollop pick on her the way they have, I think she has dealt with them well. She stood up to Paul and Jemma and didn't take their ****..
Paul apologised..but that's what Paul does best, not wanting to be seen as the bad guy/..or simply knowing he can be a complete dick at the best of times.
Jemma only apologised because Paul did and didn't want to fall out with him.
Chad has been her Knight in shining Armour...and he plays it well cos he is such a cool dude.
He broke with his 'girlfriend' before entering the house..maybe keeping his options open. Sarah seems to have 'someone' but it sounds like a recent relationship.
No big deal on either part....they are obviously smitten and of any showmances seen on BB this one is different. They haven't come together for the sake of camera time..not on Sarah's part anyway. It means a lot for her to have him by her side...and he just happens to be ****ing gorgeous

I really like Chad, and I get the impression that he is at that age where he wants an actual relationship, rather than just a fling. The problem is, Im not sure Sarah is the right person, at the right time, she is far too damaged and engaged with her own problems to commit or even be a good partner to someone else
I have had no opinion about Sarah really, apart from the fact that she was being bullied by Jemma, but I would not start a relationship with a person who was in the state she is right now

Having said all that, if it is real, then you cant help how you feel at certain times in your life.........and Im glad him and Amelia didnt get together as she is a very young 20 something, and would not be right for him at all

[Ant.]

Spot on, great post rusticgal

[rusticgal]

Originally Posted by Miranda123

I really like Chad, and I get the impression that he is at that age where he wants an actual relationship, rather than just a fling. The problem is, Im not sure Sarah is the right person, at the right time, she is far too damaged and engaged with her own problems to commit or even be a good partner to someone else
I have had no opinion about Sarah really, apart from the fact that she was being bullied by Jemma, but I would not start a relationship with a person who was in the state she is right now

Having said all that, if it is real, then you cant help how you feel at certain times in your life.........and Im glad him and Amelia didnt get together as she is a very young 20 something, and would not be right for him at all

I like them both...and I know where you are coming from re Sarah. However a good man with patience and understanding is what she needs...and he may be that person.

[Paula D]

Oh for gods sake, as if this is going to last for 5 minutes outside the house.

Think you all read too much mills and boon.

[reece(:]

Originally Posted by tanussa

I wouldnt mind standing in for her if she needs a night off. oooh, my imaginations running away with itself now

[Miranda123]

Originally Posted by Paula D

Oh for gods sake, as if this is going to last for 5 minutes outside the house.

Think you all read too much mills and boon.

Im pretty sure you are right, but how nice would it be if this was the real thing and both their lives got better because of it

Ok.....I am well aware I have stepped into a Meg Ryan/Tom Hanks movie, please excuse me, Ive had several large glasses of wine

[rusticgal]

Originally Posted by Paula D

Oh for gods sake, as if this is going to last for 5 minutes outside the house.

Think you all read too much mills and boon.

Mills and Boon...?? Half the people on here wouldn't know what you are talking about.
Perhaps some of us would like to see someone with issues feel happy and accepted... Not everyone in life has an alterior motive.

[Paula D]

Originally Posted by rusticgal

Mills and Boon...?? Half the people on here wouldn't know what you are talking about.
Perhaps some of us would like to see someone with issues feel happy and accepted... Not everyone in life has an alterior motive.

Mmm, maybe that's the reason.

When you've a bit of life experience you don't fall for this crap.

[rusticgal]

Originally Posted by Paula D

Mmm, maybe that's the reason.

When you've a bit of life experience you don't fall for this crap.

Well for some people it all ends well. I'm not suggesting this is a 'love story'...but it's working for both of them at the moment so good for them.

[Miranda123]

Originally Posted by Paula D

Mmm, maybe that's the reason.

When you've a bit of life experience you don't fall for this crap.

I did go through a Mills and Boon period, whereas usually Im a crime novel kind of reader
Its always nice to indulge yourself in romantic bull**** every now and again though the truth can be better than fiction, with ther right guy

[SarenaW]

Chad is my favourite in the house and I don't mind Sarah... but I don't want any romantic relationship between the two. Mostly because I know how annoyed viewers get with showmances.

[rusticgal]

Originally Posted by SarenaW

Chad is my favourite in the house and I don't mind Sarah... but I don't want any romantic relationship between the two. Mostly because I know how annoyed viewers get with showmances.

I know what you mean...lets hope they keep their heads.
The only thing that worries me is that they are a bit ostracised and they may just seek solace in each other and become boring viewing.

[millyrose]

Well i wouldn't say no, he is charming, he has stood by Sarah from being bullied by Jemma and Trisha