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Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

So would I, and so would most people I think, but then isn't it about figuring out how people who do have very different opinions can share and discuss those opinions and reach a compromise or, at least, make sure that those opinions are properly understood so that observers don't come to the wrong conclusion?

Being open minded and taking the time to try to understand a situation is important too, of course; people should try not to be reactionary, and make sure they do fully understand context before assuming intent.

But we are talking about a fancy dress outfit, so are you saying ALL fancy dress outfits should be banned,as Im sure everyone of them will upset some little person with no fun or imagination