[AnnieK]

Originally Posted by Mrs Deagle

We all grieve in different ways, when my dad died I never even took the day off school. When my Grandad died I had to take 2 weeks off as I coped differently to their deaths. If someone insinuated I didn't give a **** about someone I loved I would be furious. How dare anyone judge how someone copes.

If somebody in your family passed away how would you feel if someone criticised the way you deal with it?

Agreed. When my mum died I went back into work the day after.....after sitting in a hospice for a week, I needed the normality. I fell apart after funeral but I think I was in shock.