[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by GoldHeart

Accepting "hush money" literally makes the victim look guilty . Especially the private pay offs outside court which look suspicious on both sides .

Saying reporting sexual harassment to the police " gets you nowhere" , is the wrong attitude yo have .

Money doesn't solve a thing , if the victim has genuinely been abused / assaulted what Is money going to do!? and the accused is still walking the streets Scott free.

The victim is blamed anyway. And reporting to the police does get you nowhere.

[Christmas Lights]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

The victim is blamed anyway. And reporting to the police does get you nowhere.

Actually as soon as any man gets accused , instantly the victim is allowed anonymity but the alleged predator has his name thrown across the media and it's always guilty until proven innocent with little evidence . And he's automatically labelled a "pervert" .

I know genuine abuse gets unreported and the police don't always get the right person, and prison sentences for rape is a joke literally 2 years if that !! .

But you have to admit the harassment allegations are out of control, and mud sticks . Even if someone is WRONGLY accused and proven innocent it's still ruined their career and people will always have doubts about them .

All I know is I wouldn't accept money and if you're innocent you shouldn't feel the need to "pay someone off " . This isn't like claiming accident insurance .