[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by thesheriff443

The problem is people take serious debates far too seriously, arguing with someone you don't like about a subject that you can't change or won't change.

Well, thats what serious debates is though, surely. Someone should be able to forcefully argue their point without dissolving into a 'whataboutery' fit or sniping on.

Cherie - I have literally asked to be a normal member again like 3 times now in the past couple of months and I am still green. It was annoying me a bit, but I am now over it I think. I think james may have just thought I was tantruming a bit, which in one of the cases may be true but in the others i was deadly serious

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

Well, thats what serious debates is though, surely. Someone should be able to forcefully argue their point without dissolving into a 'whataboutery' fit or sniping on.

Cherie - I have literally asked to be a normal member again like 3 times now in the past couple of months and I am still green. It was annoying me a bit, but I am now over it I think. I think james may have just thought I was tantruming a bit, which in one of the cases may be true but in the others i was deadly serious

I am glad he has made you see sense

[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

Well, thats what serious debates is though, surely. Someone should be able to forcefully argue their point without dissolving into a 'whataboutery' fit or sniping on.

Cherie - I have literally asked to be a normal member again like 3 times now in the past couple of months and I am still green. It was annoying me a bit, but I am now over it I think. I think james may have just thought I was tantruming a bit, which in one of the cases may be true but in the others i was deadly serious

Only on an internet site would you continue to argue with some one who views you don't agree with, you don't mix with people you don't like in real life.

As members look for ways to undermine another members opinion it gets personal because that's their personal opinion.