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Originally Posted by jet
IMO Aaron wanted to have a relationship in the house for whatever reason. At first he fancied Louise, but she likes a mans man. He wasn’t sure whether to go for Faye or Maisy and when he tried it on with Maisy that blew up in his face and she obviously wasn’t that interested anyway. That left Faye, who DID fancy him. Alright then, Faye it is...
But it was obvious from the start that there was no spark on Aaron’s part. Can you truly say that there is any genuine passion, or romance, or loving affection on Aaron’s part? He’s about as passionate and romantic towards her as a dead herring. He looks at her as a possible girlfriend so coldly and dispassionately. She burped - take off 10 points. She wants kids and a Range Rover - take off 50 points.
If you care deeply for someone you comfort them when they are suffering (Jem leaving) - but he was all ‘oh she told me not to speak to her’.) Get things in PERSPECTIVE man. At the worst, he’s a callous selfish B******; at best he’s a childish immature limp noodle. And if you care for someone you are delighted when they are happy, you don’t start cynically thinking about their ‘gameplan’ - unless you have one yourself and that’s all you really think about.
I think Faye is a very emotional and needy person, and most of her moods where a result of Aaron’s coldness towards her, the lack of nice little romantic gestures that are a part and parcel of a man wooing a women, and a total lack of mutual understanding between them. She seen how Jay was with Lou and probably longed for some little thing, however small, that would show that he really thought she was desirable and cared for her.
Apart from when they went to bed at night, they rarely sat and had a normal conversation, let alone cuddled or touched each other affectionately. It was either Faye in a mood or Aaron in a strop and not talking to her for some stupid reason. He seems a very closed - off and self centered person, and I don’t know how any relationship could survive that - certainly not when the girl is as young as Faye is compared to him.
I’m not an Aaron fan, obviously, and not really a Faye fan either, but I feel for her. She needs to dump him pronto, for the girl has had a horrible time with not only her cow of a sister but her so - called ‘boyfriend’ messing with her head, intentionally or not. Maybe the best thing that could happen to her is being evicted on Friday and getting away from Aaron, though I would rather see HIM go. He won’t though - that kind of emotionally stunted man holds a strange fascination for many women, unfortunately. (If they ever actually got involved with him, I wonder how THEY would fare!)
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'At first he fancied Louise'...well what man wouldn't she's a beautiful model..however, like the rest of us, he soon saw through the back of her head by looking into her eyes..let's not criticise a man for wanting more than a beautiful package....
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..when he tried it on with Maisy..' when Maisy and Aaron BOTH snogged each other...AFTER Faye got out of bed and told him to spoon Maisy...BEFORE any romance wit Faye..and oh didn't she guilt trip him for that one...'...you want you're son to be proud.....' cheap shot...
'She burped..take off 10 points'...she burped in his face...hardly your typical mating ritual behaviour..I would doubt there's a H.M in there who would not have been offended by that (bar Jay and Louise)
'She wants kids and a Range Rover..take off 50 points..' he wasn't criticising her for wanting those things..he was realising the differences between them and the realisation that they may not be compatible...something a lot of us have been saying since the start...they may like each other...but they are too different....an honest diary room revelation imo
'the lack of romantic gestures...how Jay is with Louise...' if she wanted a man to make tin foil letters, write her name in blood..stick messages on the door....she chose the wrong man..that's Jay..it's not Aaron....isn't caring for someone about loving THEM..not wanting them to be someone else...
'Aaron in a strop'....from what I recall Aaron's main strop with Faye was the revelation of seeing him nominate him....
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I agree with the last part....she needs to go tonight....leave Aaron to try and regain some of the life she has sucked from him.......