[Kate!]

Didn't know what to call the thread really, hopefully that reflects what I mean?

Are you the 'leader' in your friendships (I am talking about all friendships, social friends, work friends, friends on here/other sites)?

What I mean is, are you the one that initiates conversations, suggests things to do, is it usually you who calls/texts/other first the majority of the time, or are you more a 'let it all happen, let them come to me' type.

Second part of the question, if you are the initiator most/all of the time, are you fine with that or do you sometimes think if you didn't bother, would your friends?

I analyze stuff like this too much sometimes, I have a thing that if I am always the one to have to actively start a conversation, make a phone call or text or message (here and facebook) I feel like I'm more invested in the friendship than the other person, even though they don't do anything to make me feel that way at all. I like it to be 50-50 or at least 60-40 lol, so I feel wanted (needy bitch lol)

You?