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Yup..simply to not be the only one who hasnt seen it I didnt get past about chapter 10 of the book because it was like a written porno tbh..but from the ads and that it seems theres more of a story to the film than there seemed to be in the book..so might aswell try it.

Also, from what I read, Christian Grey is amazing I would love a guy like that...so no, I dont think its abusive or whatever, I think it should be more common

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I convinced 2 women I work with not to go see it bc it's Romanticising an abusive relationship
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It's not abuse, it's S&M.
Well no it isn't, S&M involves consent, which is broken numerous times throughout the book, she's inexperienced and he manipulates her into doing things which she isn't comfortable with and then gets angry and her when she's upset afterwards, he rapes her and even after saying a safe word, he carried on, which is sexual assault

He is abusive and this book is fetishising and romanticising abuse, not S&M

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Well no it isn't, S&M involves consent, which is broken numerous times throughout the book, she's inexperienced and he manipulates her into doing things which she isn't comfortable with and then gets angry and her when she's upset afterwards, he rapes her and even after saying a safe word, he carried on, which is sexual assault

He is abusive and this book is fetishising and romanticising abuse, not S&M

Right, I have now read all three books and this doesnt happen?

No consent is broken, plus the rare times she safewords, he stops immediately?

In a way I am disappointed, as I figured after readng this post that there was more to it all than a normal 'lovestory' thing, but there isnt

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Vicky is into bondage.
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yes but she would want to use the Strap-on for you Morsh

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I recall old Mrs LT wanted me to tie her up to the bed so I did and went off and watched the West Ham Liverpool game. When I returned 2 hours later she was quite mad.

who knows what women want, they are a mystery


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