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Old 28-05-2015, 11:04 PM #1
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Joel was laughing along with it. If he really wanted Aaron to stop then he could have made it clear that he really wanted him to stop. Or he could have gone to BB himself. He did none of that.

It was just a bit of a drunken laugh. Joel knew that aaron was not going to sexually assault him.

At worst aaron deserved a warning for flashing everyone.
Everyone was laughing at the situation, Joel asked him to stop.

His defence - why he did walk out and towards the end he wasn't laughing.

Like I said everyone to blame to one degree or other, included those behind the cameras.
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Everyone was laughing at the situation, Joel asked him to stop.

His defence - why he did walk out and towards the end he wasn't laughing.

Like I said everyone to blame to one degree or other, included those behind the cameras.

Your right about cameras, not thought about that before, BB let it go for some time before intervening
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Joel was laughing along with it. If he really wanted Aaron to stop then he could have made it clear that he really wanted him to stop. Or he could have gone to BB himself. He did none of that.

It was just a bit of a drunken laugh. Joel knew that aaron was not going to sexually assault him.
I don't know if you've ever been in such a situation but one of the many possible reactions is to laugh out of discomfort. I wouldn't fault Joel for laughing but I wouldn't doubt that he entirely wanted it to stop. Aaron crossed the line repeatedly in the incident and what he did was sexual harassment. Cut and dry.

Men tend not to expect sexual harassment in life so it's completely shocking when it happens. Joel didn't know what to do and was laughing because despite his extreme discomfort everyone else was too.

Do I think Joel wanted Aaron removed for that? Probably not. But I fully support Big Brother's decision. That sort of behaviour is not a drunken laugh when it is so thoroughly unwanted and Joel did not want it. He couldn't even bring himself to kiss Aaron earlier, how do you think he felt when Aaron stripped off and jumped on him and in his bed?
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I don't know if you've ever been in such a situation but one of the many possible reactions is to laugh out of discomfort. I wouldn't fault Joel for laughing but I wouldn't doubt that he entirely wanted it to stop. Aaron crossed the line repeatedly in the incident and what he did was sexual harassment. Cut and dry.

Men tend not to expect sexual harassment in life so it's completely shocking when it happens. Joel didn't know what to do and was laughing because despite his extreme discomfort everyone else was too.

Do I think Joel wanted Aaron removed for that? Probably not. But I fully support Big Brother's decision. That sort of behaviour is not a drunken laugh when it is so thoroughly unwanted and Joel did not want it. He couldn't even bring himself to kiss Aaron earlier, how do you think he felt when Aaron stripped off and jumped on him and in his bed?
Agree with your rational thinking
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I don't know if you've ever been in such a situation but one of the many possible reactions is to laugh out of discomfort. I wouldn't fault Joel for laughing but I wouldn't doubt that he entirely wanted it to stop. Aaron crossed the line repeatedly in the incident and what he did was sexual harassment. Cut and dry.

Men tend not to expect sexual harassment in life so it's completely shocking when it happens. Joel didn't know what to do and was laughing because despite his extreme discomfort everyone else was too.

Do I think Joel wanted Aaron removed for that? Probably not. But I fully support Big Brother's decision. That sort of behaviour is not a drunken laugh when it is so thoroughly unwanted and Joel did not want it. He couldn't even bring himself to kiss Aaron earlier, how do you think he felt when Aaron stripped off and jumped on him and in his bed?
Why was joel throwing pillows at him and running towards him to pretend to kick him?

If I was being sexually harassed then I would want to put distance between myself and the perp and not provoke him further.

Joel is a slimy politician wannabe with an eye for the main chance. He wasn't really bothered at all, just as Charley wasn't bothered by what Emily said, but they played on it to eliminate a member of the competition.
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All of them were ridiculous. I think the only ones I did not see laughing and egging Aaron on were Chloe, Eileen and Cristian
Jade didn't feature atall in it I couldn't see or hear her
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On the video where the housemates get told Aaron has been ejected Harriet does genuinely look gobsmacked and like she's thinking over what she did the night before. I don't think she realised at the time how bad it was.

Her behavior was wrong although everyone was laughing so it's not like Harriet's just to blame. No one bothered intervening.

I don't even like Harriet but people are being a bit over the top attacking her when the rest of them were just as bad.
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Surely that's worth a warning at the very least?
No point in warning or ejecting the vile hag. She will be evicted tomorrow to cacophonous boos.
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Harriet is a tool, hopefully she gets the boot tomorrow.
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Her,Sarah and Danny were twats. Funny thing is they may all go tomorrow.
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yes, everyone was involved, but harriet was the worst
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yes, everyone was involved, but harriet was the worst
Not everyone. Chloe, Eileen and Cristian stayed out of it. Harriet was a disgrace. Hope she goes.
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If they could send Harriet back in time (wishful thinking) She would be one of the hags knitting beside the guillotine.
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