[Livia]

Originally Posted by Brother Leon

What Jesus said tbh.

We dunno ****,really.

Same.

[joeysteele]

Stupidhoe, only once did I seriously consider leaving the forum because of someone else, time went by and it didn't bother me so much as time went on.
I now think why should I leave because of one or a few when I get on with so many and they seem to get on with me.

I rarely offer advice, however please don't leave because of one or even a few other people, if you really don't want to leave yourself, they don't matter and the people who enjoy your posts and communicating with you are the ones who do matter.

On this thread are people who really want you here.So many saying you should stay, speaks volumes.

[Vanessa]

Don't leave, Stupidhoe. You're well liked in here.

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by joeysteele

Stupidhoe, only once did I seriously consider leaving the forum because of someone else, time went by and it didn't bother me so much as time went on.
I now think why should I leave because of one or a few when I get on with so many and they seem to get on with me.

I rarely offer advice, however please don't leave because of one or even a few other people, if you really don't want to leave yourself, they don't matter and the people who enjoy your posts and communicating with you are the ones who do matter.

On this thread are people who really want you here.So many saying you should stay, speaks volumes.

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by StupidHoe

I'm leaving because somebody I was close to said they can't be on the forum if I am. I'm unfair to him for me to be here when I lied to him.

Don't you dare amy, nobody can hound you off the forum... PM ben with this issue I'm sure he will help, he might even change your flipping username! haha

[Scarlett.]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

Don't leave, Stupidhoe. You're well liked in here.

Is that Spike in your avatar?

[Amy Jade]

Yeah i don't want the other person getting any heat for this, they were not at fault at all.

[reece(:]

Originally Posted by Chewy

I agree.

The lie isnt even a lie, when you joined the forum, I imagine the persona you created was to probably make more people like you, but you still created that persona, you are still what you came across to other members as - a forumer worth listening to, someone who is nice and easy to get on with.

Edit: JC does have a point though. Just try talking things through privately to this other person.

The fake persona obviously wasn't done in malice or to cause conflict as proven by how she's become a great asset to the forum, lots of us have many insecurities and it can lead to some extremities such as the said false persona.

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Chewy

Is that Spike in your avatar?

Yes, it is!

[thesheriff443]

look we all make mistakes, its a bb forum, so there is no need for people to jump on the moral band wagon.

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by thesheriff443

look we all make mistakes, its a bb forum, so there is no need for people to jump on the moral band wagon.

I know, right? Lots of people hide their true identities in here.

Originally Posted by StupidHoe

Yeah i don't want the other person getting any heat for this, they were not at fault at all.

Did you lead this other person on sexually or relationship wise?

[Scarlett.]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

Yes, it is!

Just finished watching my Buffy rewatch the other week, Spike is awesome

[Kizzy]

So she is 15 not 16 whats the big deal.. unless someone has made some rather inappropriate comments.....

[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by Jesus.H.Christ

Did you lead this other person on sexually or relationship wise?

thats none of your busness jesus

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Chewy

Just finished watching my Buffy rewatch the other week, Spike is awesome

I love him, he always makes me laugh!

[Amy Jade]

Originally Posted by Jesus.H.Christ

Did you lead this other person on sexually or relationship wise?

No, not that I am aware of.

Originally Posted by thesheriff443

thats none of your busness jesus

Well before everyone rushes to this persons defence, there is another party involved that is currently being dismissed by most of the posters in this thread. If that person has been led, shared information, pics or anything like that with, then it's a huge violation, and becomes more than a basic take 2 years off someones age.

I'm not having a go at her, but there is someone else involved who has been made a fool of.

Originally Posted by StupidHoe

No, not that I am aware of.

Thank you for answering. So was it just friendly chat then?

[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by Jesus.H.Christ

Well before everyone rushes to this persons defence, there is another party involved that is currently being dismissed by most of the posters in this thread. If that person has been led, shared information, pics or anything like that with, then it's a huge violation, and becomes more than a basic take 2 years off someones age.

I'm not having a go at her, but there is someone else involved who has been made a fool of.

true ,but she dont have to explain details to you!

[Amy Jade]

Originally Posted by Jesus.H.Christ

Thank you for answering. So was it just friendly chat then?

Yes, I just wanted to make friends nothing more.

[Ninastar]

Originally Posted by Marc

I knew you had a penis

You were right and mine is definitely bigger

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by StupidHoe

Yes, I just wanted to make friends nothing more.

Don't worry, this person will understand in time. If not, they were never your friend to begin with.

Maybe close this thread and talk to that other person before anything goes further. Everyone that wants can support her in pm or on her wall.

[Amy Jade]

Yes, Vanessa., I think you are right. I am happy with the friends who have stood by me, though.

Jesus, we both decided it best to crease contact.