[joeysteele]

What has gay got to do with being a man.

People can choose not to be gluttons, stalkers, act like children, lie or be manipulative but someone who is gay hasn't the choice not to be so.

Why should that term be included as a negative as to being a man.

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by joeysteele

What has gay got to do with being a man.

People can choose not to be gluttons, stalkers, act like children, lie or be manipulative but someone who is gay hasn't the choice not to be so.

Why should that term be included as a negative as to being a man.

Eh? I assumed we were talking about choices for the ladies (which is why I put the bracketted bit on). What I meant was that a woman would hardly go for a gay bloke :S

Was answering 'Yes that's what we're all looking for in our men... lying, manipulative con artists.' rather than vanessas post about being a man

[Kazanne]

All I can say is I want thrilling,not killing so anyone BUT Dexter for me,I'de probably wake up sold to my next door neighbour

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

While Dexter may be what you say, whats the other options?

- Gay (Im assuming we are talking about what ladies want )
- Acts like a child
- Gluttons with nothing on their mind but food at all times
- Guy who is likely to stalk you if you ever split up

Not the best picks

My reply was to the 'dexter is more of a man' comment....
I would say that any of the others even taking into account what you consider their flaws constitute a better man.... And dan? well... he is the man

[joeysteele]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

Eh? I assumed we were talking about choices for the ladies (which is why I put the bracketted bit on). What I meant was that a woman would hardly go for a gay bloke :S

Was answering 'Yes that's what we're all looking for in our men... lying, manipulative con artists.' rather than vanessas post about being a man

Well sorry to disagree.
I know of a great number of women who would go for a gay guy if they had any chance and many do strongly try to anyway.
Hazel for instance is strongly attracted to a gay guy in the house.

Still for me anyway, it doesnt alter of all the options that being gay is not a choice it is the way of life for those who are.

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by joeysteele

Well sorry to disagree.
I know of a great number of women who would go for a gay guy if they had any chance and many do strongly try to anyway.
Hazel for insatnce is strongly attracted to a gay guy in the house.

It's more of an emotional connection though, she see's him as a strong positive male presence than a possible conquest I think

[Roy Mars III]

skinny guys like Dexter are all the range nowadays, I think it may be a generational gap thing here. It is not all about the muscular guys anymore. I think alot of younger people would find Dexter attractive based on looks

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Roy Mars III

skinny guys like Dexter are all the range nowadays, I think it may be a generational gap thing here. It is not all about the muscular guys anymore. I think alot of younger people would find Dexter attractive based on looks

Not really bothered about his physical looks (although I do like to jest) but personality wise he's a big fat NO.

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Roy Mars III

skinny guys like Dexter are all the range nowadays, I think it may be a generational gap thing here. It is not all about the muscular guys anymore. I think alot of younger people would find Dexter attractive based on looks

Yes. I think he's gorgeous anyway.

[Roy Mars III]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

Not really bothered about his physical looks (although I do like to jest) but personality wise he's a big fat NO.

yea, but people are going as if he is ugly. I think a lot of people would pick him over Dan just based on looks and not personality

I understand not liking him for his personality though

[Johnnyuk123]

Apparently Dexter shouts... unleash the trouser snake..... just before jumping into bed.

[Vanessa]

I like both his looks and personality.

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Johnnyuk123

Apparently Dexter shouts... unleash the trouser snake..... just before jumping into bed.

And then the socks drop out

[joeysteele]

Originally Posted by Kizzy

It's more of an emotional connection though, she see's him as a strong positive male presence than a possible conquest I think

Not sure as to that one,I think if he was to open a door and say he was willing to go for it,she would jump at the chance.

I have seen it happen loads at Uni and especially after any drinking seeions.

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by joeysteele

Not sure as to that one,I think if he was to open a door and say he was willing to go for it,she would jump at the chance.

I have seen it happen loads at Uni and especially after any drinking seeions.

sorry Joey,this made me chuckle,you'de have to be drunk to fancy Dexter

[joeysteele]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

sorry Joey,this made me chuckle,you'de have to be drunk to fancy Dexter

Aah Kazanne,I was referring to Hazel and Dan,in response to Kizzy. Not Dexter.

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by Kizzy

My reply was to the 'dexter is more of a man' comment....
I would say that any of the others even taking into account what you consider their flaws constitute a better man.... And dan? well... he is the man

Indeed. He is the only goodlooking one left. Has the personality too. The only ther goodlooking one was Daley, and look how that turned out

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by Roy Mars III

skinny guys like Dexter are all the range nowadays, I think it may be a generational gap thing here. It is not all about the muscular guys anymore. I think alot of younger people would find Dexter attractive based on looks

I kind of swing between thinking hes cute, and not. I am in a not stage right now. But skinny geeky looking guys are generally my type

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

Indeed. He is the only goodlooking one left. Has the personality too. The only ther goodlooking one was Daley, and look how that turned out

To each his own i suppose. I only like Dexter out of all of them.

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by Kizzy

My reply was to the 'dexter is more of a man' comment....
I would say that any of the others even taking into account what you consider their flaws constitute a better man.... And dan? well... he is the man

Dan a self confessed gay man is something and everything Slimy Dexter can never be

[Northern Monkey]

Lol,I he probably does'nt even know what to do with his little trouser worm.No third option for idiot?
As for being a man,Lol!He has the chest of a pigeon and the physique of a 9 year old girl.

[cfromhx02]

Or maybe just wanker. Sorry I'm only having a laugh, couldn't resist. I never believed he worked as a dating consultant or was any good at chatting up women.

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by cfromhx02

Or maybe just wanker. Sorry I'm only having a laugh, couldn't resist. I never believed he worked as a dating consultant or was any good at chatting up women.

Me neither ,hes more full of BS than Farmer Giles field

[CaudleHalbard]

Originally Posted by Roy Mars III

skinny guys like Dexter are all the range nowadays, I think it may be a generational gap thing here. It is not all about the muscular guys anymore. I think alot of younger people would find Dexter attractive based on looks

You could be onto something there.

Muscular is out and metrosexual is in! Dexter would fit in well to the latter.

But I still think he would have more appeal to gay men than to women. And I doubt he'd object to that too much.

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by CaudleHalbard

You could be onto something there.

Muscular is out and metrosexual is in! Dexter would fit in well to the latter.

But I still think he would have more appeal to gay men than to women. And I doubt he'd object to that too much.

I agree. I think he likes both males and females.