[Jezzy]

Originally Posted by Jemal

you know what.. I was gonna keep quiet cause theres alot of over sensitive people on this forum.

But for god sake? 5 men in one night? Where im from thats disgusting, and im not sexist before anyone tries to kill theirselves over it.
Also men are pigs if they do 5 women in one night.

Its just vom. And tbh if a girl is known as a slag for that then so be it. Because thats disgusting. Full stop.

Scream isnt sexist hes just speaking the truth imo.

Agree completely.

[Z]

Originally Posted by Jemal

you know what.. I was gonna keep quiet cause theres alot of over sensitive people on this forum.

But for god sake? 5 men in one night? Where im from thats disgusting, and im not sexist before anyone tries to kill theirselves over it.
Also men are pigs if they do 5 women in one night.

Its just vom. And tbh if a girl is known as a slag for that then so be it. Because thats disgusting. Full stop.

Scream isnt sexist hes just speaking the truth imo.

Yep, it's disgusting regardless of your gender, age or sexuality in my opinion.

[Kyle]

Originally Posted by Jemal

you know what.. I was gonna keep quiet cause theres alot of over sensitive people on this forum.

But for god sake? 5 men in one night? Where im from thats disgusting, and im not sexist before anyone tries to kill theirselves over it.
Also men are pigs if they do 5 women in one night.

Its just vom. And tbh if a girl is known as a slag for that then so be it. Because thats disgusting. Full stop.

Scream isnt sexist hes just speaking the truth imo.

I'd love to know how many men could manage to get 5 women in one night without paying for it or being famous (and that's considering his tackle is up for the business)

On the flip side I reckon 99% of women could find 5 consenting males to have sex with if she so wished.

[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by Simple Minds

I'd love to know how many men could manage to get 5 women in one night without paying for it or being famous (and that's considering his tackle is up for the business)

On the flip side I reckon 99% of women could find 5 consenting males to have sex with if she so wished.

im sure if you went to a weight watcher's meeting a man could get to the number five before the break
five woman in one night, thats a good swingers venue

[Nemo123]

Praise the lord for women like Luisa. Share the booty!

[Nemo123]

A man couldn't do 5 women. 2 or 3 at best, and he'd have to be a stud.

[GiRTh]

Originally Posted by Nemo123

A man couldn't do 5 women. 2 or 3 at best, and he'd have to be a stud.

Seriously? You've obviously never seen Big t*t Orgy 1 2 or 3.

[wendywillow]

A man couldn't do 5 women. 2 or 3 at best, and he'd have to be a stud.

exactly

[Jezzy]

A stud ? Or a total desperate sleazer?

[wendywillow]

none of it bothers me. I don't think any less of her. everyone's got their own bag

[GiRTh]

Anyone who sleeps with 5 people in one night needs to reassess their lifestyle and start making changes.

[Jack_]

What Dappy was saying is sexist, misogynistic drivel and anyone that agrees with him quite frankly needs to seriously evaluate their world view because that's just hypocritical nonsense. All about the 'lad' VS 'slut' culture, it's just sad. And to hear women agreeing with him is the most saddening thing of it all for me, it just goes to show how so many of them fall victims to such an oppressive and sexist belief and culture system that's constantly perpetuated throughout the media and society.

On a separate note however I'd also like to point out that I've never...really...properly understood anyone's issue with consenting single adults that are sexually promiscuous? Like, why is it important or anyone else's business but their own? I couldn't give a sh*t what people do in their free time or how many times they do it to be quite honest, so long as the people involved are all consenting, of age and are all single (I accept that it becomes an issue when people are cheating)...what exactly is the problem here? I'm not saying that everyone has to engage in that kind of behaviour, for some sex is regarded as something about love and to be with someone you feel close to, and I accept that, but I really have never understood the massive deals people make about people sleeping around when they're single and people are consenting? For many people it's just sex, who really cares? Having terms like 'sluts' and '*****s' and 'slappers' (notice there's barely any of these kind of words for men also) bandied about so often in society is really quite depressing IMO, is what other people do in that aspect of their life really that important to anyone else but those people? There's much more pressing issues on this planet and in my life that I'd rather be focusing my attention on quite frankly.

[reece(:]

Originally Posted by Jack_

And to hear women agreeing with him is the most saddening thing of it all for me, it just goes to show how so many of them fall victims to such an oppressive and sexist belief and culture system that's constantly perpetuated throughout the media and society.

Definitely spot on.

[MeMyselfAndI]

Originally Posted by Jack_

What Dappy was saying is sexist, misogynistic drivel and anyone that agrees with him quite frankly needs to seriously evaluate their world view because that's just hypocritical nonsense. All about the 'lad' VS 'slut' culture, it's just sad. And to hear women agreeing with him is the most saddening thing of it all for me, it just goes to show how so many of them fall victims to such an oppressive and sexist belief and culture system that's constantly perpetuated throughout the media and society.

On a separate note however I'd also like to point out that I've never...really...properly understood anyone's issue with consenting single adults that are sexually promiscuous? Like, why is it important or anyone else's business but their own? I couldn't give a sh*t what people do in their free time or how many times they do it to be quite honest, so long as the people involved are all consenting, of age and are all single (I accept that it becomes an issue when people are cheating)...what exactly is the problem here? I'm not saying that everyone has to engage in that kind of behaviour, for some sex is regarded as something about love and to be with someone you feel close to, and I accept that, but I really have never understood the massive deals people make about people sleeping around when they're single and people are consenting? For many people it's just sex, who really cares? Having terms like 'sluts' and '*****s' and 'slappers' (notice there's barely any of these kind of words for men also) bandied about so often in society is really quite depressing IMO, is what other people do in that aspect of their life really that important to anyone else but those people? There's much more pressing issues on this planet and in my life that I'd rather be focusing my attention on quite frankly.

[MachoPoodle]

Originally Posted by Jack_

What Dappy was saying is sexist, misogynistic drivel and anyone that agrees with him quite frankly needs to seriously evaluate their world view because that's just hypocritical nonsense. All about the 'lad' VS 'slut' culture, it's just sad.

Very, very good post, Jack!

Some people seem to have absolutely no grasp about what sexism is, from what I've seen in this post. "I'm not sexist, but..." Yeah right. I'd like to know then, what they think sexism means?

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Jack_

What Dappy was saying is sexist, misogynistic drivel and anyone that agrees with him quite frankly needs to seriously evaluate their world view because that's just hypocritical nonsense. All about the 'lad' VS 'slut' culture, it's just sad. And to hear women agreeing with him is the most saddening thing of it all for me, it just goes to show how so many of them fall victims to such an oppressive and sexist belief and culture system that's constantly perpetuated throughout the media and society.

On a separate note however I'd also like to point out that I've never...really...properly understood anyone's issue with consenting single adults that are sexually promiscuous? Like, why is it important or anyone else's business but their own? I couldn't give a sh*t what people do in their free time or how many times they do it to be quite honest, so long as the people involved are all consenting, of age and are all single (I accept that it becomes an issue when people are cheating)...what exactly is the problem here? I'm not saying that everyone has to engage in that kind of behaviour, for some sex is regarded as something about love and to be with someone you feel close to, and I accept that, but I really have never understood the massive deals people make about people sleeping around when they're single and people are consenting? For many people it's just sex, who really cares? Having terms like 'sluts' and '*****s' and 'slappers' (notice there's barely any of these kind of words for men also) bandied about so often in society is really quite depressing IMO, is what other people do in that aspect of their life really that important to anyone else but those people? There's much more pressing issues on this planet and in my life that I'd rather be focusing my attention on quite frankly.

..I agree with you, Jack in that if someone is free and single and also open and honest about it..(in that they're not leading anyone on to think it's something more than sex etc..)..then it really is up to them what they do and that's regardless of gender...I don't think it's what is perceived as the 'norm' in society and that's why Jasmine was right when she said it's opinion/subjective and I think it is the sort of thing that will spark strong opinions..?..but gender shouldn't come into it...but in the argument as such, for me there isn't a 'side' because they were both as bad as each other from what I could see in that Luisa was wrong and totally out of order to comment on what Dappy's mother would think and he had a right to be angry about that..but then he countered that by making similar comments about Luisa's daughter and what she would think of her mum...two wrongs etc and they both behaved really badly in that whole argument imo...

[Natalie.]

You have put it much better than I ever could Jack

[Nemo123]

I have opined a few times in this thread, and all my posts have been censored.

[Spoon]

Excellent post Jack!

[Vicky.]

Sexist but a really common view.

[Vicky.]

Also it makes you a complete slut regardless of gender

[MeMyselfAndI]

I agree that either way it's a little sickening, but what Dappy originally said is that if a man has sex with 5 women in one night then hes 'cool'. But if a woman has sex with 5 men in a night, shes a slut. It wasn't until Jasmine & Luisa bought up his sexist views that he backtracked and called the man a pig.

[jet]

I posted here on page 2 that I had hit the wrong button by mistake and I was team LUISA and not Dappy on this topic but my post has disappeared.
WTH?

[Jack_]

I will just forever be baffled by people's obsession with what other people do in their spare time, and how often they do it.

Cheaters and players, sure...real issues there, but sleeping around when single? Really, why do people care so much? Maybe it's just me but I'm much more bothered about whether a person is nice, caring, friendly, funny, likeable, good to be around, open minded, tolerant, has positive things to contribute to my life and the world, etc etc the list goes on...how many people they sleep with is literally the least of my worries or interests

[Z]

Originally Posted by Jack_

I will just forever be baffled by people's obsession with what other people do in their spare time, and how often they do it.

Cheaters and players, sure...real issues there, but sleeping around when single? Really, why do people care so much? Maybe it's just me but I'm much more bothered about whether a person is nice, caring, friendly, funny, likeable, good to be around, open minded, tolerant, has positive things to contribute to my life and the world, etc etc the list goes on...how many people they sleep with is literally the least of my worries or interests

I don't think I'm normally bothered by people's sex lives, but the topic of multiple partners in one night does bother me. I think it's a self respect thing; I feel like a person must not care much about themselves if they'll sleep with so many people in one night. To some people, it's just sex, but I just can't understand how a person who does that can do so and think they must have low self esteem.