[MrWong]

Originally Posted by Zee

I don't think you have to be apologetic about having lots of sexual partners, I just think you need to be better prepared for people discussing it if you choose to volunteer that information.

That wasn't a discussion tbf. That was Dappy using the information and throwing it in her face during an argument.

She's been fine during discussions.

[Z]

Originally Posted by MrWong

That wasn't a discussion tbf. That was Dappy using the information and throwing it in her face during an argument.

She's been fine during discussions.

It was a discussion for all of about two seconds but still, Jasmine managed to respond to his question and treat it like a discussion; Luisa didn't and immediately became defensive. That's where the difference lies, for me.

[MrWong]

Originally Posted by Zee

It was a discussion for all of about two seconds but still, Jasmine managed to respond to his question and treat it like a discussion; Luisa didn't and immediately became defensive. That's where the difference lies, for me.

The difference for me lies with the moving of goal posts, the backtracking and then lying about backtracking.

[Kazanne]

I'll repost this as I cant be arsed posting it again,but this is my feeling about the situation.
I know that it should be the same for men as it is women,why anyone would want to have sex with 5 different people in one night is beyond me but I guess it happens the thing with me that makes the deed different for men and women is for men it's all external with women it seems more 'wrong'(for want of a better word) as it all takes place internally which for some reason seems more intimate and to get different sperm in there all the time could be seen as dirty,lol I bet I've worded that wrong but hope you see what I mean,a woman is usually thought of as more particular than a man,but from what we are seeing,perhaps not,lol.

[Northern Monkey]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

I'll repost this as I cant be arsed posting it again,but this is my feeling about the situation.
I know that it should be the same for men as it is women,why anyone would want to have sex with 5 different people in one night is beyond me but I guess it happens the thing with me that makes the deed different for men and women is for men it's all external with women it seems more 'wrong'(for want of a better word) as it all takes place internally which for some reason seems more intimate and to get different sperm in there all the time could be seen as dirty,lol I bet I've worded that wrong but hope you see what I mean,a woman is usually thought of as more particular than a man,but from what we are seeing,perhaps not,lol.

This is pretty much what i wrote in another thread,Women should be picky about who they let inside their bodies,It's self respect,Also,Yes,5 mens sperm floating around in them is dirty,Men can wash.Plus the fact women get pregnant and need to be more responsible so they don't end up being a single mother and their kid wondering who his dad is all his life.Very good post!People seem to think that equality should take place over common sense,It should not!

[MrWong]

Originally Posted by EyeballPaul

This is pretty much what i wrote in another thread,Women should be picky about who they let inside their bodies,It's self respect,Also,Yes,5 mens sperm floating around in them is dirty,Men can wash.Plus the fact women get pregnant and need to be more responsible so they don't end up being a single mother and their kid wondering who his dad is all his life.Very good post!People seem to think that equality should take place over common sense,It should not!

Why do you keep putting these weak obstacles in the way?

Women can wash too you know. They can also use protection, so no pregnancies.

[Northern Monkey]

Originally Posted by MrWong

Why do you keep putting these weak obstacles in the way?

Women can wash too you know. They can also use protection, so no pregnancies.

A woman has to wash internally with certain equipment to wash it all out,Which on a night out just is'nt possible after each of her 5 encounters.You are right also men and women can use protection but alot of the time they don't and that is both their responsiblities but it's usually the woman who has to deal with the consequences.

[MrWong]

Originally Posted by EyeballPaul

A woman has to wash internally with certain equipment to wash it all out,Which on a night out just is'nt possible after each of her 5 encounters.You are right also men and women can use protection but alot of the time they don't and that is both their responsiblities but it's usually the woman who has to deal with the consequences.

The argument seems to have moved on to shagging in clubs and unwanted pregnancies when it didn't seem to be about that.

Dappy thinks 5 men in a night makes a girl a ***** but for a man it's cool.

Pregnancies and women being dirty internally have nothing to do with his sexist views, unless Luisa was arguing that not using protection and having a dirty vag is fine. Otherwise it's irrelevant.

[MarcusMel]

Originally Posted by EyeballPaul

A woman has to wash internally with certain equipment to wash it all out,Which on a night out just is'nt possible after each of her 5 encounters.You are right also men and women can use protection but alot of the time they don't and that is both their responsiblities but it's usually the woman who has to deal with the consequences.

If interested check out the non-fiction work of Sperm Wars.

Basically it means that somewhere in evolutionary biology men became aware that women were having sex with other men. Also women seem to be able to spontaneously abort a pregnancy if they feel they have been caught 'cheating'.

So biology, it seems, has one idea that is very different to the commonly expressed morals.

[Jemal]

People arent able to represents their real views because over sensitive forum members will call the person sexists

Its a no win/ no win situation, for the people who want to express opinions.

[wendywillow]

why would anyone care what someone else does with their body? it's her/his choice, must be imbedded in our dna or something, maybe religious stuff? I don't get it, the sexual revolution certainly didn't stick

[Z]

I wasn't brought up with any religion and I think sleeping with five different people in one night is disgusting.