[Babayaro.]

"Attacking her"

[Merry Mockmas]

Originally Posted by Babayaro.

"Attacking her"

I see that bottle behind your back.

[Babayaro.]

Jackson only gets to see his son every two weeks because that's unfortunately how seperations work, as the Mum tends to get more contact

[Yaki da]

Originally Posted by Babayaro.

Jackson only gets to see his son every two weeks because that's unfortunately how seperations work, as the Mum tends to get more contact

Surely these decisions can be made independently with the ex. To only be seeing your son once every two weeks suggests to me that there are some problems here.

[Babayaro.]

Originally Posted by Yaki da

Surely these decisions can be made independently with the ex. To only be seeing your son once every two weeks suggests to me that there are some problems here.

Well yeah they can, it all depends on what sort of relationship you have with your ex or if you are on speaking terms or not. But I wouldn't say there are problems (there might be, who knows) as every 2 weeks seems to be the norm for a child to see their Dad or in some instances their mum

[Yaki da]

Originally Posted by Babayaro.

Well yeah they can, it all depends on what sort of relationship you have with your ex or if you are on speaking terms or not. But I wouldn't say there are problems (there might be, who knows) as every 2 weeks seems to be the norm for a child to see their Dad or in some instances their mum

Well, I can only speak from my own experience and my Mother made sure I saw my Father two times a week, on a school night and on the weekends. Only seeing your son once every two weeks seems too little to me, but of course every situation is different and nobody should make strong judgements on it with so little knowledge. But if I were in Georgina's position I would be wondering all these things and I see nothing wrong with that. The fact is Jackson was coming on strong with her and who knows how far he would have tried to take it without ever telling her he has a son, which it seems to me he has a duty to inform her of when pursuing her in the manner he has. Georgina was quite right to make an issue of some of these things (such as him hiding his photos) and yet is being judged harshly imo for essentially being a reasonable adult who understood immediately how the revelation that he has a son will complicate things further, rather than a sentimental fool who gushes over the cuteness of his son.

[jet]

Originally Posted by Yaki da

Well, I can only speak from my own experience and my Mother made sure I saw my Father two times a week, on a school night and on the weekends. Only seeing your son once every two weeks seems too little to me, but of course every situation is different and nobody should make strong judgements on it with so little knowledge. But if I were in Georgina's position I would be wondering all these things and I see nothing wrong with that. The fact is Jackson was coming on strong with her and who knows how far he would have tried to take it without ever telling her he has a son, which it seems to me he has a duty to inform her of when pursuing her in the manner he has. Georgina was quite right to make an issue of some of these things (such as him hiding his photos) and yet is being judged harshly imo for essentially being a reasonable adult who understood immediately how the revelation that he has a son will complicate things further, rather than a sentimental fool who gushes over the cuteness of his son.

'Duty to inform her' ??? For goodness sake they have only known each other a few days, why would he need to rush into telling her about his son? They haven't even been an item (if you can call it that) for more than 24 hours. You'd think they were dating for weeks the way you're going on.

[Merry Mockmas]

Originally Posted by Babayaro.

Well yeah they can, it all depends on what sort of relationship you have with your ex or if you are on speaking terms or not. But I wouldn't say there are problems (there might be, who knows) as every 2 weeks seems to be the norm for a child to see their Dad or in some instances their mum

I think with Jackson he liked to smoke Pot which has hurt his case of seeing his children is my guess.

[Garfie]

I can see both sides of this argument. I believe Georgina was shocked and was trying to absorb the information, and didn't know quite how to respond- I think she, therefore, felt awkward and this is why she giggled, which can be a common response in such situations.

However, I don't think Jackson was trying to be devious about his son or trying to hide anything. Who's to say when the right time is to reveal private information? This is very early days at this stage- they really have spent so little time with each other so far, as we are only a few weeks in, and Jackson has spent the majority of time in the other house, so they are still getting to know each other. In general, people do not tell people everything about themselves the moment they begin to be interested in someone- we gradually reveal more information about ourselves as we feel more secure about someone. This is in order to protect ourselves and the things that are most precious to us- in this case his son.

I think people are being very harsh on Jackson. His son clearly means the world to him, and the situation is obviously very painful to him- we don't know what has happened in his relationship with his son's mother, so I don't feel it is right to judge him without this information as it is just assumption.

I feel he was reluctant to share his photos, as maybe he didn't want to have to discuss his son on a tv show. I think he was afraid that showing the photo would bring out very painful and difficult emotions for him- which it clearly did- and he just didn't want this to happen as it is too raw for him, and because he is in the BB house. Although, he is on a reality to show, he is not obliged to share everything about himself, and be forced to discuss things he wants to protect, or are just too painful for him to discuss. However, having pressured him into sharing this with her, I would have expected Georgina to have shown a little more compassion and support when Jackson was obviously upset. Her failure to do so suggests that, emotionally, she just isn't on the same page as him, and is unlikely to be able to provide what he needs.

In my opinion this relationship is never going to work, and despite their attraction to each other, deep down they both know that- another reason why he might have been reluctant to open up about the most private and precious parts of his life. He has put Georgina on a pedestal but, again in my opinion, he is falling for the person he imagines her to be, rather than the person she really is- I feel this could be because he is at a stage in his life when he is ready to find that special someone, and is desperately trying to convince himself that Georgina is that someone. I think he is going to get hurt, as she cannot provide what he truly needs.

Georgina is already recognising all the negatives about the relationship, and has identified all the reasons it won't work. She has also been mentioning all the things she wants to change about Jackson- if you want to change someone so much, they are not the person for you. To show such embarrassment when thinking about him spending time with the important people in your life and such a reluctance about the idea of him being part of her social circle, is a massive sign that he isn't for her. Although she likes the person she is getting to know, I don't believe she would really entertain the idea of a proper relationship with him- I think she needs to be honest with herself and with Jackson about this.

[jet]

Originally Posted by Garfie

I can see both sides of this argument. I believe Georgina was shocked and was trying to absorb the information, and didn't know quite how to respond- I think she, therefore, felt awkward and this is why she giggled, which can be a common response in such situations.

However, I don't think Jackson was trying to be devious about his son or trying to hide anything. Who's to say when the right time is to reveal private information? This is very early days at this stage- they really have spent so little time with each other so far, as we are only a few weeks in, and Jackson has spent the majority of time in the other house, so they are still getting to know each other. In general, people do not tell people everything about themselves the moment they begin to be interested in someone- we gradually reveal more information about ourselves as we feel more secure about someone. This is in order to protect ourselves and the things that are most precious to us- in this case his son.

I think people are being very harsh on Jackson. His son clearly means the world to him, and the situation is obviously very painful to him- we don't know what has happened in his relationship with his son's mother, so I don't feel it is right to judge him without this information as it is just assumption.

I feel he was reluctant to share his photos, as maybe he didn't want to have to discuss his son on a tv show. I think he was afraid that showing the photo would bring out very painful and difficult emotions for him- which it clearly did- and he just didn't want this to happen as it is too raw for him, and because he is in the BB house. Although, he is on a reality to show, he is not obliged to share everything about himself, and be forced to discuss things he wants to protect, or are just too painful for him to discuss. However, having pressured him into sharing this with her, I would have expected Georgina to have shown a little more compassion and support when Jackson was obviously upset. Her failure to do so suggests that, emotionally, she just isn't on the same page as him, and is unlikely to be able to provide what he needs.

In my opinion this relationship is never going to work, and despite their attraction to each other, deep down they both know that- another reason why he might have been reluctant to open up about the most private and precious parts of his life. He has put Georgina on a pedestal but, again in my opinion, he is falling for the person he imagines her to be, rather than the person she really is- I feel this could be because he is at a stage in his life when he is ready to find that special someone, and is desperately trying to convince himself that Georgina is that someone. I think he is going to get hurt, as she cannot provide what he truly needs.

Georgina is already recognising all the negatives about the relationship, and has identified all the reasons it won't work. She has also been mentioning all the things she wants to change about Jackson- if you want to change someone so much, they are not the person for you. To show such embarrassment when thinking about him spending time with the important people in your life and such a reluctance about the idea of him being part of her social circle, is a massive sign that he isn't for her. Although she likes the person she is getting to know, I don't believe she would really entertain the idea of a proper relationship with him- I think she needs to be honest with herself and with Jackson about this.

Brilliant post. Bravo!

[Merry Mockmas]

Originally Posted by Garfie

I can see both sides of this argument. I believe Georgina was shocked and was trying to absorb the information, and didn't know quite how to respond- I think she, therefore, felt awkward and this is why she giggled, which can be a common response in such situations.

However, I don't think Jackson was trying to be devious about his son or trying to hide anything. Who's to say when the right time is to reveal private information? This is very early days at this stage- they really have spent so little time with each other so far, as we are only a few weeks in, and Jackson has spent the majority of time in the other house, so they are still getting to know each other. In general, people do not tell people everything about themselves the moment they begin to be interested in someone- we gradually reveal more information about ourselves as we feel more secure about someone. This is in order to protect ourselves and the things that are most precious to us- in this case his son.

I think people are being very harsh on Jackson. His son clearly means the world to him, and the situation is obviously very painful to him- we don't know what has happened in his relationship with his son's mother, so I don't feel it is right to judge him without this information as it is just assumption.

I feel he was reluctant to share his photos, as maybe he didn't want to have to discuss his son on a tv show. I think he was afraid that showing the photo would bring out very painful and difficult emotions for him- which it clearly did- and he just didn't want this to happen as it is too raw for him, and because he is in the BB house. Although, he is on a reality to show, he is not obliged to share everything about himself, and be forced to discuss things he wants to protect, or are just too painful for him to discuss. However, having pressured him into sharing this with her, I would have expected Georgina to have shown a little more compassion and support when Jackson was obviously upset. Her failure to do so suggests that, emotionally, she just isn't on the same page as him, and is unlikely to be able to provide what he needs.

In my opinion this relationship is never going to work, and despite their attraction to each other, deep down they both know that- another reason why he might have been reluctant to open up about the most private and precious parts of his life. He has put Georgina on a pedestal but, again in my opinion, he is falling for the person he imagines her to be, rather than the person she really is- I feel this could be because he is at a stage in his life when he is ready to find that special someone, and is desperately trying to convince himself that Georgina is that someone. I think he is going to get hurt, as she cannot provide what he truly needs.

Georgina is already recognising all the negatives about the relationship, and has identified all the reasons it won't work. She has also been mentioning all the things she wants to change about Jackson- if you want to change someone so much, they are not the person for you. To show such embarrassment when thinking about him spending time with the important people in your life and such a reluctance about the idea of him being part of her social circle, is a massive sign that he isn't for her. Although she likes the person she is getting to know, I don't believe she would really entertain the idea of a proper relationship with him- I think she needs to be honest with herself and with Jackson about this.

Jackson and Georgina are a Showmance, it's just that Georgina exposed how much she doesn't really care about him.

[Nicky91]

Originally Posted by Mystic Mock

Jackson and Georgina are a Showmance, it's just that Georgina exposed how much she doesn't really care about him.

no, it's more how insecure she is, about what her family and friends would think of him, maybe she likes him, but she isn't like Jackson who already talks about a wedding, and saying to her 100 times how beautiful she is and a goddess, maybe she just needs some time, Jackson needs to calm down and just have fun with her in the house

[Merry Mockmas]

Originally Posted by Nicky91

no, it's more how insecure she is, about what her family and friends would think of him, maybe she likes him, but she isn't like Jackson who already talks about a wedding, and saying to her 100 times how beautiful she is and a goddess, maybe she just needs some time, Jackson needs to calm down and just have fun with her in the house

Jackson's very clever, going after Georgina knowing what she's like will end up seeing the mostly female voters take his side over hers in most scenarios.

[Nicky91]

Originally Posted by Mystic Mock

Jackson's very clever, going after Georgina knowing what she's like will end up seeing the mostly female voters take his side over hers in most scenarios.

i really hope you're wrong, Mock

[Nicky91]

I Love Georgina, and I like Jackson, but i don't like them as a couple, they just don't suit each other


I will remain loyal to Georgina, no matter what

[Parmy]

Originally Posted by Nicky91

I Love Georgina, and I like Jackson, but i don't like them as a couple, they just don't suit each other


I will remain loyal to Georgina, no matter what

more fool you.

[Nicky91]

Originally Posted by parmnion

more fool you.

why is Georgina the villain in this, just because she's a posh rich girl



this thread is really making me cry

[Parmy]

Originally Posted by Nicky91

why is Georgina the villain in this, just because she's a posh rich girl



this thread is really making me cry

she's a snob.

[Nicky91]

Originally Posted by parmnion

she's a snob.

she's maybe a snob or spoiled rich girl, and i don't really care too much about that if i'm honest, she just has self respect that she doesn't want to be used


I like her moaning, i find it funny

[Merry Mockmas]

Originally Posted by parmnion

she's a snob.

She might be, but tbf I think that some people (not all) are jumping down her throat because she's posh.

Just because she doesn't go gaga over a child that she doesn't even know doesn't make her a cold person like some people have suggested.

[Withano]

Originally Posted by Nicky91

I Love Georgina, and I like Jackson, but i don't like them as a couple, they just don't suit each other


I will remain loyal to Georgina, no matter what

Why? Thats such a dumb way to watch the show. Remain loyal to her as long as shes your favourite sure, but no matter what? Whats the point in watching it?

[Nicky91]

and Georgina made a few times already clear, she's not interested in Jackson, by saying she's expensive, she doesn't like smoking, and still he doesn't get it

[Nicky91]

and if she is a snob, i don't care too much about that, she's classy to me, i just love her through positive and negative times


that is a full BB journey, getting your positive times and negative times

[billy123]

It was pretty obvious what a miserable brat it was from the start.

[Nicky91]

Originally Posted by bobnot

It was pretty obvious what a miserable brat it was from the start.

who? Jackson or Georgina