[Paula D]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

Is Tom really that small? Looks about my height and I am 5 ft 6

It's small for a man. I couldn't date a man smaller than me, I'm 5ft 7in. I know it's a terrible thing to judge on and men can't change their height, I just can't look down on a man when kissing or anything.

[pontyboi]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

Yes. Everyone seems to be rather obsessed with Sams height. Its a bit odd.

My husband is 6 ft 3...its really not that tall. if he was like 8 foot I could understand everyone talking all the time about it but as it is, nah

Your husband is 6'3?...you lucky girl lol tallest ive been with was 6'5 and it's true what they say.....ouch.

[Littlegreen]

He said he didn't like being played by Ellie and hated the way the lads excluded him. Yet there he is being a mug and taking it.

In a way Sue is helping him hugely by exposing it out in the open.

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by Littlegreen

He said he didn't like being played by Ellie and hated the way the lads excluded him. Yet there he is being a mug and taking it.

In a way Sue is helping him hugely by exposing it out in the open.

But they are not excluding him ,hence him having fun in the pool with them. Having a problem one day with someone does not mean you have to have a problem all of the time. I think Sam was being a bit self pitying about all of that yesterday tbh...noone actually excludes him. They argue, yes.

I honestly think Sue/Hannah.Raph got into Sams head with the 'that group ignore everyone' bull**** that they peddle constantly and thus Sam took the argument way too personally and got paranoid

[Littlegreen]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

But they are not excluding him ,hence him having fun in the pool with them. Having a problem one day with someone does not mean you have to have a problem all of the time. I think Sam was being a bit self pitying about all of that yesterday tbh...noone actually excludes him. They argue, yes.

I honestly think Sue/Hannah.Raph got into Sams head with the 'that group ignore everyone' bull**** that they peddle constantly and thus Sam took the argument way too personally and got paranoid

He even went to the diary room almost weeping over being excluded. If he wasn't in his twenties I'd feel sorry for him.

Joe does keep the newer housemates at a distance though, and he's the "daddy" of the lads.

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Littlegreen

He even went to the diary room almost weeping over being excluded. If he wasn't in his twenties I'd feel sorry for him.

Joe does keep the newer housemates at a distance though, and he's the "daddy" of the lads.

Joe likes to keep his clique away from the others.

[rusticgal]

Originally Posted by Hayden

Youtube video

What is it with men this series trying to square up to women?

so its ok for women to bait them and push sensitive buttons in order to get a reaction...they are both as bad as each other.

[Paula D]

Originally Posted by rusticgal

so its ok for women to bait them and push sensitive buttons in order to get a reaction...they are both as bad as each other.

I'm sorry if anyone thinks this is sexist but I don't care really.

I've 2 sons and I've brought them up that no matter what they shouldn't intimidate, get aggressive with or use their size against any woman.

There are differences between the 2 sexes whether people like it or not, usually males are stronger and bigger and they should never use it against a woman, no matter what buttons are pressed.

[rusticgal]

Originally Posted by Paula D

I'm sorry if anyone thinks this is sexist but I don't care really.

I've 2 sons and I've brought them up that no matter what they shouldn't intimidate, get aggressive with or use their size against any woman.

There are differences between the 2 sexes whether people like it or not, usually males are stronger and bigger and they should never use it against a woman, no matter what buttons are pressed.

If you had a daughter I would hope you would tell her the same thing. Young woman these days are more laddish than lads...they get pissed..they fight..they swear...
Sam should have just ignored the stupid cow and leave her looking bad...but I think we all know that's not easy when someone is slagging you off and pointing at you...antagonising you..

[azi]

Originally Posted by rusticgal

If you had a daughter I would hope you would tell her the same thing. Young woman these days are more laddish than lads...they get pissed..they fight..they swear...
Sam should have just ignored the stupid cow and leave her looking bad...but I think we all know that's not easy when someone is slagging you off and pointing at you...antagonising you..

It doesn't matter though. Sam should've fought back with words not get aggressive like that towards a women.

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by azi

It doesn't matter though. Sam should've fought back with words not get aggressive like that towards a women.

Aggressive like what?

Why on earth are people immediately jumping to he was getting out of the pool to square up...I don't get that at all.

Is this sexism? Just because he is male it has to be physical intimidation and such rather than just arguing. We counter the racism with sexism...lovely.

[rusticgal]

Originally Posted by azi

It doesn't matter though. Sam should've fought back with words not get aggressive like that towards a women.

Sorry...what did he do other than get up?...

[rusticgal]

Originally Posted by azi

It doesn't matter though. Sam should've fought back with words not get aggressive like that towards a women.

He didn't get aggressive. Where did he get aggressive?
....and please don't answer that question with "well he stood up"...give me a real example.

[Paula D]

Originally Posted by rusticgal

If you had a daughter I would hope you would tell her the same thing. Young woman these days are more laddish than lads...they get pissed..they fight..they swear...
Sam should have just ignored the stupid cow and leave her looking bad...but I think we all know that's not easy when someone is slagging you off and pointing at you...antagonising you..

I do have a daughter and no I wouldn't tell her the same thing because it doesn't apply. She's 5ft nothing and no threat to anyone.

[rusticgal]

Originally Posted by Paula D

I do have a daughter and no I wouldn't tell her the same thing because it doesn't apply. She's 5ft nothing and no threat to anyone.

Just because you are short doesn't make you less aggressive...just because you are a female doesn't mean you have an inability to goad..intimidate...get in people's faces...fight.
Your daughter obviously isn't made that way but unless you go around with your eyes closed..you must realise that girls can be equally as troublesome as boys.
Surely this BB is proving that point.

[azi]

Originally Posted by rusticgal

so its ok for women to bait them and push sensitive buttons in order to get a reaction...they are both as bad as each other.

He actually got up aggressively towards her.
Tom broke the DR door. What's wrong with them
They don't know how to argue in words like Sue?

[rusticgal]

Originally Posted by azi

He actually got up aggressively towards her.
Tom broke the DR door. What's wrong with them
They don't know how to argue in words like Sue?

He got up aggressively ( that's a new one)..she was goading him..she was yelling at the top of her voice slagging him off...he didn't go near her' he stood up in retaliation to confront her. He wasn't half as aggressive as she was.

We are not talking about Tom...

...well they try but the woman has such a big gob on her she won't let them get a word in..

[Paula D]

Originally Posted by rusticgal

He got up aggressively ( that's a new one)..she was goading him..she was yelling at the top of her voice slagging him off...he didn't go near her' he stood up in retaliation to confront her. He wasn't half as aggressive as she was.

We are not talking about Tom...

...well they try but the woman has such a big gob on her she won't let them get a word in..

Why the need to stand up at all?

[rusticgal]

Originally Posted by Paula D

Why the need to stand up at all?

Oh FGS....

It's human nature to stand up and be on the same level as people when the are verbally attacking you...

[Brother Leon]

Sue was more aggresive than him though..

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by Brother Leon

Sue was more aggresive than him though..

yes she totally lost her temper, its kind of the whole point really

and i mean, totally

I dont think Sam can be aggressive tbh, too nice

[Babayaro.]

Tbh I don't see any problems here. They both gave as good as they got

[azi]

Wow that was scary.

[BB4fan]

Originally Posted by Hayden

Youtube video

What is it with men this series trying to square up to women?

What is it with any of them squaring up with each other this series? It's been full of that.

[Ant.]

Marsh is spilling more tea than #HURRICANESUE on a Tuesday morning