[monkeyking87]

Originally posted by Conzors

Yeh but why is being straight more accepted.. and why did you got 'whatt?' beause if he was talking bout a girl, you wouldnt of gone 'what' so you just prooved my point exactly. Maybe you need to open your mind a bit more.

There isn't any. I think a lot of people decide to be more sensitive to certain things than others. I don't really care and it's not a big deal but I think people are using ignorance as an excuse.

Me no likey ignorance or close minded-ness...

[\PJ/]

It was just a quote in a VT.

[Tom4784]

Originally posted by Conzors
I find it funny how most straight people are disgusted at this, and gay/bi people arent. Like if he said 'except the one in my girlfriend last night' not one single straight dude would find it disgusting, and would find it funny, so whats the difference?

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It's an entirely fair point. I think quite a few tibbers have shown their narrowmindness with this topic.

[Captain.Remy]

Message original : Conzors

Yeh but why is being straight more accepted.. and why did you got 'whatt?' beause if he was talking bout a girl, you wouldnt of gone 'what' so you just prooved my point exactly. Maybe you need to open your mind a bit more.

Read my latest post.

[monkeyking87]

Originally posted by Captain.Remy

I wasn't talking about me, I made the comment because it's a fact, it's been proven over and over and over. I'm not saying being gay is bad, not at all, I'm saying that narrow-minded people may find it shocking and offensive hence why if Charlie was straight and made the same comment, it would have been seen as alright.
The comment in itself didn't make me uncomfortable at all. He's free to do whatever he wants with his 'bone' (it's not even a bone by the way lmao) but yet I had a reaction when I heard it because we are not used to hear it everyday. See my point ?

Sure I do and I was talking in the same general way you were. In no way was I making a comment about you or your opinions.

I stick by mine by what you have said ie just because some people haven't "accepted" gays yet doesn't mean that there should be extra consideration given for something that a jack the lad would say and be celebrated for.

You get me?

[quietheartbeat]

Originally posted by monkeyking87

Thats pretty much a problem of close minded-ness. I don't think you can be in any way upset that more lliberal people don't see the problem with the comment.

If "straight" is right and "gay" is wrong then I can see a major fault in this sort of mindset

[Noel]

I really don't get where this whole Gay Vs. Straight this is coming from, but it needs to stop. I wish people would stop bringing things like that into this. It's only a show for God's sake.

[yousoboo!]

Originally posted by Dezzy

It's an entirely fair point. I think quite a few tibbers have shown their narrowmindness with this topic.

Its nothing to do with this. I'd have thought the same if a straight guy had said it. It's just a cliche opening gambit. Have you got no other way of introducing yourself apart from spouting some sexual statement?

[Conzors]

Originally posted by Captain.Remy

Read my latest post.

Yes i know, but it is showing your narrowminding ness towards this topic, and it is just like, well why do you have a problem with it if he said it homosexually, rather than hetrosexually whereas you wouldnt have had that much of a problem.

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[monkeyking87]

Originally posted by yousoboo!

Its nothing to do with this. I'd have thought the same if a straight guy had said it. It's just a cliche opening gambit. Have you got no other way of introducing yourself apart from spouting some sexual statement?

I agree with you there. People most often gay people seem to strive to catagorize themselves ie

"Hi I'm gay, who are you?" type things and I bloody hate that it's so damn annoying.

The only thing I have a problem with in this thread was the fact that it could be down to some sort of ignorance as to why people were shocked and offended.

If it's a matter of a cliché then I agree then so!

[Captain.Remy]

Message original : Conzors

Yes i know, but it is showing your narrowminding ness towards this topic, and it is just like, well why do you have a problem with it if he said it homosexually, rather than hetrosexually whereas you wouldnt have had that much of a problem.

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It sounds like you didn't read my latest post lmao.
It's not about being narrow-minded, you don't know me enough to telll if I am or not.
Like I said, people are not used to hear this kind of comments so what do you except ? Of course it had to make people react, this is a sociology issue, being gay is more accepted than before but still not enough.
And I don't even see the need of saying this in front of a camera, I wouldn't have said it myself because it would be right disrespectful for my girlfriend.

[monkeyking87]

Originally posted by Conzors

Yes i know, but it is showing your narrowminding ness towards this topic, and it is just like, well why do you have a problem with it if he said it homosexually, rather than hetrosexually whereas you wouldnt have had that much of a problem.

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I don't think Remy is "narrowminded" just giving his view that he understands why some others may be offended.

With the exception of the "I thought it was another bitchy queen like Dennis" part it's not his particular opinion

[Captain.Remy]

Thanks Monkey I appreciate. I generally try to give a global answer rather than a personal opinion on that kind of matter because these are real issues.

[Bright-Eyes]

Originally posted by yousoboo!

Its nothing to do with this. I'd have thought the same if a straight guy had said it. It's just a cliche opening gambit. Have you got no other way of introducing yourself apart from spouting some sexual statement?

Not really come on most of the housemates talk about sex to get into the house the only diffrence this time is he was talking about anal sex and that made people go eww. Why is there not a thread about the "I dont even like to wipe my arse" or whatever he said that made me more uncomfortable funny no one has mentioned that here.

[Tom4784]

Originally posted by yousoboo!

Its nothing to do with this. I'd have thought the same if a straight guy had said it. It's just a cliche opening gambit. Have you got no other way of introducing yourself apart from spouting some sexual statement?

Then okay I don't mind if you think it was cliche' that's a valid point. my post was about the members that were like 'too much information!' 'That put me right off him' etc. They wouldn't have bat an eyelid if he his said his girlfriend.

[Tom4784]

Originally posted by Bright-Eyes

Not really come on most of the housemates talk about sex to get into the house the only diffrence this time is he was talking about anal sex and that made people go eww. Why is there not a thread about the "I dont even like to wipe my arse" or whatever he said that made me more uncomfortable funny no one has mentioned that here.

Cairon got dissected last night.

[monkeyking87]

Originally posted by Captain.Remy
Thanks Monkey I appreciate. I generally try to give a global answer rather than a personal opinion on that kind of matter because these are real issues.

Dont worry Remy I understand your POV and how you are expressing yourself. Generally you are just giving a wider opinion which you dont technically subscribe to!

[Miss-red]

lol it made me laugh my head off it was funny xx

[Jackie]

Wasn't at all funny

[crossieKIDD]

HILARIOUS!

[Chri$]

What he said is SO fake because he said on Live Feed that he split up with his boyfriend is February (?) and he said "I haven't got a nasty bone in my body. Except the one in my boyfriend last night" and he is single now lol

[Annie]

If he hadnt said that then I wouldnt have known he was gay so I am glad he did, meant I didnt fall for him lol

[SairBabi92]

i thought ''thank god we have some fittys!''
and then he said that, put a right downer on it lmao.
xx

[xDramatick]

Originally posted by Chri$
What he said is SO fake because he said on Live Feed that he split up with his boyfriend is February (?) and he said "I haven't got a nasty bone in my body. Except the one in my boyfriend last night" and he is single now lol

Yeah but he was probably going out with his boyfriend whilst auditioning

[dudley357]

i thought it was quite hilarious when charlie said that!!