[Jordan.]

Originally Posted by Petemitch123

that is an awful thing and if you are supporting this kind of behaviour I think you should be excluded from this site. blackmail is a terrible and nasty thing

Well you would because you don't know the whole story.

[MeMyselfAndI]

If you're good friends with a load of mods you won't get punished, thats my theory tbh

[Lee.]

Originally Posted by Salman!

It's disgusting what they did to Mollie, she was one of the kindest members on this site

*he

[Benjamin]

Originally Posted by The baby Zeesus

I think for me, there were decisions being made that I personally couldn't stand behind and I just decided that I wanted to be a regular member again.

I'm much happier on here as a regular member, it really started getting me down. I'd come on here to have a piss around and a laugh and end up having to deal with so much drama. The last months before I stepped down were truly awful as a mod, and made me want to just quit TiBB.

[Z]

Originally Posted by MeMyselfAndLeona

But Zee, the above is not even infraction worthy, so how on earth is what Stacey did even a reason to be banned if the above is completely allowed

I don't like the rules & modding inconsistencies at all, how some members can do what they like (literally) whilst others can't. It's just a fact really.

I know why it's frustrating for members when the rules don't seem to be consistent, but rather than thinking of moderators as people who simply enforce rules, think of it more as like a jury at a trial - each case is different and they have to take into account all of the factors that they know about, and they dish out the punishment according to what they think will be best for the person they're punishing and the rest of the community. Sometimes it's just a slap on the wrist, other times it's a lengthy ban in the hope that they will reform, and other times it's an indefinite or permanent ban if they don't feel that the member will learn their lesson.

Edit: Just like a jury in a trial, they have to go with the majority consensus when they make their decision. You'd be surprised how many decisions in the admin forum get debated extensively before action is taken - and that's me speaking from experiences that were over two years ago; I'm sure it's still the same today.

[Samm]

Mollie left when I joined I think

[Pete.]

Originally Posted by Jordan.

Well you would because you don't know the whole story.

no I don't know the whole story but the way you phrased it 'in case she needed it to use it against someone' makes me feel that you and her are unpleasant

[Benjamin]

Originally Posted by MeMyselfAndLeona

If you're good friends with a load of mods you won't get punished, thats my theory tbh

Not strictly true, I banned you a few times.

[Stu]

Sure, why not. It's not like she can make the hole this place is any deeper.

[MeMyselfAndI]

Then the jury are idiots, if they think what Stacey did was worse..

[Jordan.]

Originally Posted by Petemitch123

no I don't know the whole story but the way you phrased it 'in case she needed it to use it against someone' makes me feel that you and her are unpleasant

wow and I care so much. I'm guessing you're still fuming over tibb bb that's why you feel the need to troll this thread

[Me. I Am Salman]

omg lmao

[Pete.]

Originally Posted by Jordan.

wow and I care so much. I'm guessing you're still fuming over tibb bb that's why you feel the need to troll this thread

if you call trolling contribution then what is the point of Internet forums??

[Z]

Originally Posted by MeMyselfAndLeona

Then the jury are idiots, if they think what Stacey did was worse..

But you're still talking about things in a comparative sense. Each case is judged individually. The mods didn't permanently ban Stacey and have some future insight into what would happen with Mollie a few years later; nor did they presumably look at what happened with Mollie and immediately think back to what happened with Stacey - especially considering that the mod team involved in Stacey's ban is quite different from the one that exists team.

[Jessica.]

Originally Posted by MeMyselfAndLeona

Then the jury are idiots, if they think what Stacey did was worse..

It was worse, I don't know anything about Mollie/Mike but I am pretty sure whoever used their pictures to find out about them were affected personally by their lies. Also, you seem to forget that at the beginning you stole pictures from a girl and posted them on the forum to tie with your fake persona. so obviously it;s easy for you to see past something like that,

Stacey saved the pictures of EVERYONE and made it public that the purpose was to use them for blackmail, that is disgusting behaviour that I wouldn't expect from anyway, also after her ban she let it be known that she didn't delete the pictures either, and for all we know she could still have them.

[Jordan.]

Originally Posted by Petemitch123

if you call trolling contribution then what is the point of Internet forums??

You're not contributing though, you've already admitted you don't know the whole story. I get the impression you're just using this as an excuse to be a nuisance like you were in the tibb bb thread.

[Samm]

Originally Posted by Jordan.

wow and I care so much. I'm guessing you're still fuming over tibb bb that's why you feel the need to troll this thread

[T*]

Originally Posted by ukturtle

This was the final straw for me as a mod and why I stepped down.

It's sometimes really scary here, especially when things like the mollie thing happened.

[MeMyselfAndI]

It wasn't worse Jessica, contacting family members & the school someone goes too, who is under 18, from adults is much much worse.

Especially from a member that was always very kind too everybody and probably had issues, It must have knocked their confidence even lower.

Especially when Mollie was begging the members to stop on MSN also, and the others were all laughing like bullies

[Jordan.]

Originally Posted by MeMyselfAndLeona

It wasn't worse Jessica, contacting family members & the school someone goes too, who is under 18, from adults is much much worse.

All Stacey did was saved the photos she never acted upon it like they did, I don't see how it could be worse?

[arista]

Originally Posted by Jessus

It was worse, I don't know anything about Mollie/Mike but I am pretty sure whoever used their pictures to find out about them were affected personally by their lies. Also, you seem to forget that at the beginning you stole pictures from a girl and posted them on the forum to tie with your fake persona. so obviously it;s easy for you to see past something like that,

Stacey saved the pictures of EVERYONE and made it public that the purpose was to use them for blackmail, that is disgusting behaviour that I wouldn't expect from anyway, also after her ban she let it be known that she didn't delete the pictures either, and for all we know she could still have them.

that puts a whole new light on this

[Jessica.]

Originally Posted by MeMyselfAndLeona

It wasn't worse Jessica, contacting family members & the school someone goes too, who is under 18, from adults is much much worse.

Stacey even posted your facebook on the forum and it said your school on it, anyone could have contacted your school from that.

[Pete.]

Originally Posted by Jordan.

You're not contributing though, you've already admitted you don't know the whole story. I get the impression you're just using this as an excuse to be a nuisance like you were in the tibb bb thread.

I can easily understand the story from this thread though and I thing that Stacey did some bad things and the fact that you openly endorse her behaviour is IMO bad

[Novo]

why do people think more then one person contacted Mollie's family.. it was only one person who actually rang someone up

[MeMyselfAndI]

Originally Posted by Jessus

Stacey even posted your facebook on the forum and it said your school on it, anyone could have contacted your school from that.

They actually did contact the school though, now please can you leave as you were not even on the forum when the Mollie thing happened.