[jet]

Originally Posted by kizzy

And many HM's have done things out of turn to her....what goes around comes around joe...Scrabble?

The HM's have all done things out of turn to each other (with a few exceptions). The point that is being missed is not what Deana does in particular but the WAY she does it and her MANNER when she is doing it. Her arrogance and superior air is off - putting; she sets out to publicly humiliate (as with Luke S and Sara); she made fun of Luke S and Scott instead of just being straight and discussing what is on her mind with them - and it took Luke A to get her think about what she had done with Luke S and apologize to him - she couldn't see how she had done anything that wrong until he spoke to her at length about it.
She closely watches and monitors people to to pick up on something she can question them about and expose them. I find that the most horrible trait of all.
She swans around the place as if she is above everyone - it is obvious she is used to having 'servants' (what an awful word to use in this day and age). She just has this arrogant and smug persona and a lack of human empathy that makes those who dislike that kind of person dislike her. It's perfectly understandable.

[Livia]

Some people are so blinded by hatred and jealousy that they just can't see the wood for the trees. It's kind of sad...

[cassieparis]

Adam and Luke A are as big game players as Deana and all the other h/ms.
Adam is trying to spotlight Deana's flaws. This is a very poor way to win.
Luke A knows better but is foolish enough to be pulled along ......at times.... currently.

[InOne]

Originally Posted by kizzy

And many HM's have done things out of turn to her....what goes around comes around joe...Scrabble?

Yes but then that makes her no better than them. And can't cycling is on soon and got to watch the lovely Vicky beast them all.

[Beso]

I think Adam is just relieved to have Deana around as it gives him the chance to stab her in the back instead of Luke A.

[Munchkins]

Originally Posted by Livia

Some people are so blinded by hatred and jealousy that they just can't see the wood for the trees. It's kind of sad...

I know Livia
tis a shame, but hopefully Deana will win

[Nedusa]

After watching Deana for the last couple of days I must say I have noticed that her behaviour has changed and although some of it can be blamed on alcohol, there are parts that perhaps reflect her true nature.Since she was persecuted by Conor and others from the outset she may have decided to mask her true nature and seek allies in the other Outsiders, but now that her nemesis is gone along with Becky and Caroliar I think she is now dropping that mask.

Adam and Luke A have seen the change also but I think they may use this to their advantage as ultimately they both want to win. This is why they are not exactly discouraging her current behaviour. A clever ploy perhaps.....

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by jet

The HM's have all done things out of turn to each other (with a few exceptions). The point that is being missed is not what Deana does in particular but the WAY she does it and her MANNER when she is doing it. Her arrogance and superior air is off - putting; she sets out to publicly humiliate (as with Luke S and Sara); she made fun of Luke S and Scott instead of just being straight and discussing what is on her mind with them - and it took Luke A to get her think about what she had done with Luke S and apologize to him - she couldn't see how she had done anything that wrong until he spoke to her at length about it.
She closely watches and monitors people to to pick up on something she can question them about and expose them. I find that the most horrible trait of all.
She swans around the place as if she is above everyone - it is obvious she is used to having 'servants' (what an awful word to use in this day and age). She just has this arrogant and smug persona and a lack of human empathy that makes those who dislike that kind of person dislike her. It's perfectly understandable.

Whereas the others just sat around suggesting she was 'vile' 'disgusting' that she made them 'want to vomit' 'IT' was 'slappable' that they would 'punch her in the face'.....
but deana is terrible for attempting to have a conversation with sara and stating the obvious to lukeS?....
OK...

[InOne]

Originally Posted by Nedusa

After watching Deana for the last couple of days I must say I have noticed that her behaviour has changed and although some of it can be blamed on alcohol, there are parts that perhaps reflect her true nature.Since she was persecuted by Conor and others from the outset she may have decided to mask her true nature and seek allies in the other Outsiders, but now that her nemesis is gone along with Becky and Caroliar I think she is now dropping that mask.

Adam and Luke A have seen the change also but I think they may use this to their advantage as ultimately they both want to win. This is why they are not exactly discouraging her current behaviour. A clever ploy perhaps.....

I don't blame them if hanging with Deana is in their mind damaging their chances. She has got herself into all sorts of situations in her time in there and often it's been her fault. Mostly with the noms talk. And this NuDeana is much worse and just comes across as embarrassing.

[Bojangles]

Deana has now morphed into Caroline.It was her treatment by Caroline and the others that kept her in the house.So can't she reason that out.

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by InOne

Yes but then that makes her no better than them. And can't cycling is on soon and got to watch the lovely Vicky beast them all.

She is a mere mortal, you have to admit she has put up with a lot from those who have left?
ok no probs go team GB!
Said on the news if yorkshire were a country we would be 10th in the medal tables! how ace is that?

[InOne]

Originally Posted by kizzy

She is a mere mortal, you have to admit she has put up with a lot from those who have left?
ok no probs go team GB!
Said on the news if yorkshire were a country we would be 10th in the medal tables! how ace is that?

Yes she did, but the way she's going isn't great. She should've remained graceful and dignified. Instead she starts insulting most of the house and making a fool of herself. But it seems Deana fans want it both ways.

And yeah heard that, it's great really, seems we produce the best. I'll admit I didn't know Jessica Ennis was from Sheffield though, I knew Yorkshire but thought it was some rural place lol

[Ellen]

Originally Posted by kizzy

Whereas the others just sat around suggesting she was 'vile' 'disgusting' that she made them 'want to vomit' 'IT' was 'slappable' that they would 'punch her in the face'.....
but deana is terrible for attempting to have a conversation with sara and stating the obvious to lukeS?....
OK...

Yes it wasnt nice when they said that about her but she has done the same, she also said she wanted to slap Conor.
Deana knew Sara was having difficulty in conversation but continued to go on & on making it uncomfortable for Sara, that is not attempting conversation, that is deliberatly trying to show someone up.
Stating the obvious with Luke S, yes maybe but yet again she goes on & on deliberatly trying to humiliate someone knowing they feel bad already. Not a nice trait in anyone.

[jet]

Originally Posted by Livia

Some people are so blinded by hatred and jealousy that they just can't see the wood for the trees. It's kind of sad...

Why can't you accept that some people just don't like Deana and we take the time to give the reasons why?
I used to like her - I am listed in her fanclub forum and I voted for her many a time. I have gone off her because of her recent behaviour. I am entitled to either like her or not, just as you are - it doesn't mean either of us is 'blind'. Some people dislike certain behaviours and people and others don't. It's that simple. *sigh*

[jet]

Originally Posted by kizzy

Whereas the others just sat around suggesting she was 'vile' 'disgusting' that she made them 'want to vomit' 'IT' was 'slappable' that they would 'punch her in the face'.....
but deana is terrible for attempting to have a conversation with sara and stating the obvious to lukeS?....
OK...

That's right. If you don't understand what I am saying in my post you never will.

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by Ellen

Yes it wasnt nice when they said that about her but she has done the same, she also said she wanted to slap Conor.
Deana knew Sara was having difficulty in conversation but continued to go on & on making it uncomfortable for Sara, that is not attempting conversation, that is deliberatly trying to show someone up.
Stating the obvious with Luke S, yes maybe but yet again she goes on & on deliberatly trying to humiliate someone knowing they feel bad already. Not a nice trait in anyone.

Put all that together and its bullying ,to carry on when you know you are making someone feel uncomfortable is bullying ,and ignorance, shes done it a few times

[sampvt]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

Put all that together and its bullying ,to carry on when you know you are making someone feel uncomfortable is bullying ,and ignorance, shes done it a few times

I couldnt agree more. Hey Chuff, have you noticed over the last few days, the Deana lovers have started to mirror her actions, they too are getting quite nasty and borderline desparate.

[Jimrod]

Chuff, stop cyber-bullying Deana.

The bullies all display the same behaviour - loud and brash, starting arguments but when the "victim" bites back the response is always the same: Back out of room while making lots of noise, run to pack of like-minded associates, complain loudly about victim in hope of backup. Deana stands up for herself and confronts those who are against her - Ashleigh, Caroline and Becky all have displayed the aforementioned bully behaviour. All mouth but don't back it up when they are stood up to.

[Beso]

Originally Posted by Jimrod

Chuff, stop cyber-bullying Deana.

The bullies all display the same behaviour - loud and brash, starting arguments but when the "victim" bites back the response is always the same: Back out of room while making lots of noise, run to pack of like-minded associates, complain loudly about victim. Deana stands up for herself and confronts those who are against her - Ashleigh, Caroline and Becky all have displayed the aforementioned bully behaviour. All mouth but don't back it up when they are stood up to.

because they know they don't stand a chance against Deana.

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by sampvt

I couldnt agree more. Hey Chuff, have you noticed over the last few days, the Deana lovers have started to mirror her actions, they too are getting quite nasty and borderline desparate.

I ignore them

[Munchkins]

Originally Posted by sampvt

I couldnt agree more. Hey Chuff, have you noticed over the last few days, the Deana lovers have started to mirror her actions, they too are getting quite nasty and borderline desparate.

I really think that is a harsh comment to make
We are just constantly having to defend against a barrage of hate

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by jet

That's right. If you don't understand what I am saying in my post you never will.

If it contained anything but your fuzzy logic I might

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by sampvt

I couldnt agree more. Hey Chuff, have you noticed over the last few days, the Deana lovers have started to mirror her actions, they too are getting quite nasty and borderline desparate.

Yes. I noticed that. And it's getting worse everyday. Good thing i always stand up for myself!

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Munchkins

I really think that is a harsh comment to make
We are just constantly having to defend against a barrage of hate

Not you. You are always nice, polite and respectful.

[sampvt]

Originally Posted by parmnion

because they know they don't stand a chance against Deana.

Well said Parimon, they dont stand a chance against her because BULLIES ALWAYS REIGN SUPREME, dont they, well noticed.