[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Zee

Fair enough. I know I would feel betrayed if I found out someone I'd slept with had slept with other people in the same night, but maybe that's just me.

..yeah, you would if you had a commitment, I think anyone would but I guess I was going on the assumption that there were no feelings involved...

[Smithy]

Originally Posted by AnnieK

If you hook up with a stranger in a club and go back for sex that night I can't believe there are that many emotions...it's more like drunken fuelled horniness IMO.

Yeah and if you're going back home with them, you're probably lucky #5 at least you get a bed for the night

[Benjamin]

Originally Posted by Smithy

Yeah and if you're going back home with them, you're probably lucky #5 at least you get a bed for the night

[AnnieK]

Originally Posted by Smithy

Yeah and if you're going back home with them, you're probably lucky #5 at least you get a bed for the night

Yeah....

[smudgie]

there were ten in a bed and the little one said rollover..rollover.

Whatever turns you on..it is obviously only sexual pleasure you are seeking, nothing to do with low self esteem..more to do with a high sex drive and sense of adventure.
Get it out of your system before you meet your soulmate.

[Z]

Originally Posted by Smithy

Yeah and if you're going back home with them, you're probably lucky #5 at least you get a bed for the night

[Nedusa]

Let's hope he had plenty of change for the condom machine !!!

[user104658]

Errrrrrmm... morally, I have no issue with it. Sex can be just sex (it doesn't HAVE to be, but it CAN be, and for the vast majority of people having one night humpfests, emotions aren't really part of the package).

Physically? I can only imagine... chafey? You could use a lot of lube, I guess. Or if it was five 5-minute quickies I guess it wouldn't technically be any different to one 25-minute session with one person... but still, by the 5th time it can't be feeling great. And from a male perspective, by the 4th "happy moment" within a few hours it tends to be a dry-jizz which (IMO) is seriously uncomfortable. Even the 3rd is usually just an unsatisfying spittle. And the 5th? I reckon it would probably just hurt. Haha.

[Kizzy]

It must have an element to it of instant gratification or something?
With no emotions involved it's just sex and seems so carnal and base.
It's not for me, I alone have to be adored by my partners so it wouldn't work

[Niamh.]

Personally I think it's a bit manky and wouldn't do it myself (for both men and women) each to their own though i guess but I'd hope that i never unwittingly ended up with someone who did that alot, you'd never know what you'd catch :/

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Personally I think it's a bit manky and wouldn't do it myself (for both men and women) each to their own though i guess but I'd hope that i never unwittingly ended up with someone who did that alot, you'd never know what you'd catch :/

Can't catch anything twice

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Jesus.

Can't catch anything twice

[Livia]

I couldn't sleep with five people in a night. I'd have to send two of them home.

[Ramsay]

I was once quite close to having a sixsome but luckily we all smoked a joint and fell asleep instead

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Karl

I was once quite close to having a sixsome but luckily we all smoked a joint and fell asleep instead

[Benjamin]

Originally Posted by Livia

I couldn't sleep with five people in a night. I'd have to send two of them home.

Like an Apprentice style system? The two that fail to impress the most get fired?

[Lee.]

Even if I were single, I have too much self respect to let 5 different men use my body for their own satisfaction.. I would get no pleasure from it whatsoever. My mind needs stimulated first I'm afraid and a quick 5 minute **** does not appeal to me in the slightest!

[Smithy]

Originally Posted by Lee.

Even if I were single, I have too much self respect to let 5 different men use my body for their own satisfaction.. I would get no pleasure from it whatsoever. My mind needs stimulated first I'm afraid and a quick 5 minute **** does not appeal to me in the slightest!

Well thats ok for you, but just because someone has lots of sex with different people doesn't mean they have low self respect, self respect is about doing things that make you happy, if that's having lots of sex, then each to their own

[Livia]

Originally Posted by Benjamin

Like an Apprentice style system? The two that fail to impress the most get fired?

Hmmm never thought about it like that. But yeah, if you like!

[Lee.]

Originally Posted by Smithy

Well thats ok for you, but just because someone has lots of sex with different people doesn't mean they have low self respect, self respect is about doing things that make you happy, if that's having lots of sex, then each to their own

That's fair enough.. However, I've know a few slags in my time and yes, they appear to just love to have lots of meaningless sex, but every single one if them were not happy at all.. They were simply using their body for attention and affection and ended up feeling pretty bad about themselves.. Plus when it came to actually finding someone to have a proper relationship, they struggled. Like this or not, but men are happy for a woman to spread her legs for one night, but when it comes to actually settling down, they don't want the town bike.

[Z]

Originally Posted by Lee.

That's fair enough.. However, I've know a few slags in my time and yes, they appear to just love to have lots of meaningless sex, but every single one if them were not happy at all.. They were simply using their body for attention and affection and ended up feeling pretty bad about themselves.. Plus when it came to actually finding someone to have a proper relationship, they struggled. Like this or not, but men are happy for a woman to spread her legs for one night, but when it comes to actually settling down, they don't want the town bike.

Yeah I agree with this. Maybe that makes me judgmental but I can live with that.

[Lee.]

Originally Posted by Zee

Yeah I agree with this. Maybe that makes me judgmental but I can live with that.

I care not one jot.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Lee.

That's fair enough.. However, I've know a few slags in my time and yes, they appear to just love to have lots of meaningless sex, but every single one if them were not happy at all.. They were simply using their body for attention and affection and ended up feeling pretty bad about themselves.. Plus when it came to actually finding someone to have a proper relationship, they struggled. Like this or not, but men are happy for a woman to spread her legs for one night, but when it comes to actually settling down, they don't want the town bike.

The same goes for men though imo. I'd be thinking about how manky it is, you know sleep with one guy and you're sleeping with everyone he has too, disease wise

[Lee.]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

The same goes for men though imo. I'd be thinking about how manky it is, you know sleep with one guy and you're sleeping with everyone he has too, disease wise

Yeah definitely! But unfortunately, men don't get labelled as town bikes or slags or as having bad reputations! A loose woman is far more talked about than a slag of a man.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Lee.

Yeah definitely! But unfortunately, men don't get labelled as town bikes or slags or as having bad reputations! A loose woman is far more talked about than a slag of a man.

Yeah definitely which shouldn't be the case, but it is true that it happens that way.