[LukeB]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

I know that but to be frank, I have more important people the worry about so no I don't lose sleep over someone I dont know ,I worry about people I know and love, yes you can feel sorry for people in that position but seriously worry about them ? No

I'm not saying you should be worried about them

[Kate!]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

I know that but to be frank, I have more important people the worry about so no I don't lose sleep over someone I dont know ,I worry about people I know and love, yes you can feel sorry for people in that position but seriously worry about them ? No

I don't lose sleep over Meghan. I'm not obsessed. But I do have a lot of empathy for the woman.

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by joeysteele

Usually when we have that situation and yes, I can agree most have known or know of people and/or loved ones who have mental health issues or and have been suicidial.

Usually too however, what that brings, is understanding and empathy with others who say they are too.
Since the real experience gained from knowing anyone who has mental health issues and who are or were possibly suicidal, that experience teaches usually not to ridicule or dismiss it in others.
Plus that it can happen to ANYONE, rich and poor, strong and weak alike.

I haven't ridiculed anyone and as I said to Luke yes you can feel sorry for a stranger in that situation,but not worry,surely you have more important people to worry about,.

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by LukeB

I'm not saying you should be worried about them

That was partly the topic of the thread (do you think and worry for)

[joeysteele]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

I haven't ridiculed anyone and as I said to Luke yes you can feel sorry for a stranger in that situation,but not worry,surely you have more important people to worry about,.

Doesn't stop me having empathy for others who say they have issues.

If I only cared for myself and mine, what good is that.
We're all human beings after all.

[rusticgal]

Originally Posted by Glenn.

But you call into question Meghans mental health?

No I don’t....Meghan is fully in control and knows exactly what she’s doing.

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by joeysteele

Doesn't stop me having empathy for others who say they have issues.

If I only cared for myself and mine, what good is that.
We're all human beings after all.

I didnt say I didn't have empathy,I said I didnt worry over her, we are all human,but saying that some humans are vile.

[jet]

Originally Posted by rusticgal

No I don’t....Meghan is fully in control and knows exactly what she’s doing.

Agree 100%. She's over confident if anything and isn't vulnerable at all - but she's playing on the emotions of the vulnerable.

[Kate!]

I'll amend the thread title if people are going to be like dogs with a bone over it. Will remove the worry about wording.

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Kate!

I'll amend the thread title if people are going to be like dogs with a bone over it. Will remove the worry about wording.

Why do that as the thread won't make sense,you asked the question we answered no need to alter the title to suit.theres no worry about the wording its a simple question

[rusticgal]

Originally Posted by Cherie

I believe they said they didn't read newspapers, so from where are they being hounded?

Diana was papped coming out of the gym and followed everywhere, is that happening to Meghan if it is I am not seeing it?

You are not seeing it because it’s not happening....Diana was hounded, the press were literally in her face and she was only 19. Meghan is 39 and used to the press and limelight.

It’s a ridiculous comparison.

[Kate!]

Originally Posted by rusticgal

No I don’t....Meghan is fully in control and knows exactly what she’s doing.

How do you know?

None of us truly know what is going on in her mind but I believe her interview was true honest and heartfelt.

It reminds me so much of Diana. Thats why I'm making the comparison.

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Kate!

How do you know?

None of us truly know what is going on in her mind but I believe her interview was true honest and heartfelt.

It reminds me so much of Diana. Thats why I'm making the comparison.

And how do you know she is telling the truth. You don't as you say none of us know what's going on in her mind it might be the truth and it may not.its nothing like Diana imo.

[jet]

Originally Posted by Kate!

How do you know?

None of us truly know what is going on in her mind but I believe her interview was true honest and heartfelt.

It reminds me so much of Diana. Thats why I'm making the comparison.

Meghan is NOTHING like Diana....and her (Meghan's) interview was full of lies,
contradictions and spite.

[Kate!]

I believe Meghan.

[Crimson Dynamo]

So if you don't agree with the thread you don't understand mental health issues?

Eh?

[LukeB]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

And some people are ignorant to the fact people can lie even ones you adore

Not as ignorant as some are being right now.

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Kate!

I believe Meghan.

I would never have guessed

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by LukeB

Not as ignorant as some are being right now.

Its not ignorant to look at BOTH sides of things

[Tom4784]

I think it was possible back when she was in the royal atmosphere, but hopefully now that she and Harry are living on their own terms, things will be better.

The hatred for this woman is so demented and detached from reality that she would probably be accused of being manipulative in death if it ever happened. 'Oh! She only committed suicide to make the queen look bad! Who does she think she is? She'll NEVER be Diana!' etc etc.

That, or you'd get the vomit inducing #bekind bull**** from the people who delighted in her suffering but now want clout from her theoretical death.

[joeysteele]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

I didnt say I didn't have empathy,I said I didnt worry over her, we are all human,but saying that some humans are vile.

That's fine.
Doesn't make all humans vile however.

My point was, experience of seeing those close to us who have suffered or suffer mental health.
Thereby gaining the knowledge of their inner pain once they reveal it.
Even moreso if we have come across a loved one suicidal.

Then for me anyway, the automatic response to anyone saying they have mental health issues past or still.
Have had suicidal thoughts.
Been in that real dark hole fearing speaking out.

Because that's usually the only way we learn of loved ones in pain of these issues.
When they eventually feel they can reveal it.

Then, I couldn't be cold or condemn or dismiss anyone who stated they were in or had been to that dark place.
Recalling the pain any of our loved ones felt at the time they were.

We should be thankful we didn't think of just dismissing it and not reaching out and being supportive.

Because it is sadly more the norm that is the case for many suffering mentally and thinking suicidal thoughts.
That it's still seen as weakness, or dismissed or ridiculed

Would we want that for our loved ones WE knew had suffered it
Would we really want others to go through it.
Have it dismissed as lying or weakness and unnecessary just because they have some status.
Not me, I couldn't be like that.

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

I know that but to be frank, I have more important people the worry about so no I don't lose sleep over someone I dont know ,I worry about people I know and love, yes you can feel sorry for people in that position but seriously worry about them ? No

Meghan isn't losing any sleep over her own family never mind the rest of us

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Kate!

I'll amend the thread title if people are going to be like dogs with a bone over it. Will remove the worry about wording.

its a big part of the thread....?

[LukeB]

Originally Posted by Dezzy

I think it was back when she was in the royal atmosphere, but hopefully now that she and Harry are living on their own terms, things will be better.

The hatred for this woman is so demented and detached from reality that she would probably be accused of being manipulative in death if it ever happened. 'Oh! She only committed suicide to make the queen look bad! Who does she think she is? She'll NEVER be Diana!' etc etc.

That, or you'd get the vomit inducing #bekind bull**** from the people who delighted in her suffering but now want clout from her theoretical death.

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Dezzy

I think it was back when she was in the royal atmosphere, but hopefully now that she and Harry are living on their own terms, things will be better.

The hatred for this woman is so demented and detached from reality that she would probably be accused of being manipulative in death if it ever happened. 'Oh! She only committed suicide to make the queen look bad! Who does she think she is? She'll NEVER be Diana!' etc etc.

That, or you'd get the vomit inducing #bekind bull**** from the people who delighted in her suffering but now want clout from her theoretical death.

Oh here we go,no one hates her, just some people do not believe her,its simple really .