[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by JerseyWins

But the main point was not to assume what the person's intentions are or what the relationship is/was like.

Sorry, when did we start discussing specific people (apart from Stephen Bear who seemed to get forgotten about 2 pages ago). We're ALL talking in GENERAL.

Originally Posted by JerseyWins

I also disagree that people cheat with the INTENT to hurt their partner.

Originally Posted by JerseyWins

It's going to hurt their partner, but the cheater usually has mixed emotions between two different people and does it selfishly for themselves, but not with the purpose to hurt their significant other. The purpose is not knowing what they truly want orrr just not caring, the latter being the worse reasoning but still a fairly common mindset you see in this generation's dating/love life. Not championing that mindset but that's just the truth these days Like I said, under normal circumstances it's a poor act to make in a relationship but no one really knows what's really going on in that relationship or just how bad it really was or the full reasoning. Either way, a bad act doesn't always/automatically make a bad person, that's where a lot of people here are jumping the gun.

Originally Posted by JerseyWins

Also people don't typically cheat with the intention to hurt their partner / loved one. And there's often a looooot more behind the relationship. There are also MANY different mindsets when it comes to cheating in relationships. In some places / some people's minds it's a very normal thing to occur, especially in younger generations.

It's normally under usual circumstances a bad act I'd agree with that, but even then that's not equivalent to actually being a bad person because you did something bad. Everyone does something bad.

People have massive problems with Bear over mainly very little issues. Whatever I guess, that's fair But he's a funny/entertaining guy and sorry if he's not to you cause you're missing out

So you can ASSUME all of this in a hypothetical scenario about "cheaters" to reach your opinion but mine's invalid?

No. You've gone so far off track you're tied in knots.

A bad act doesn't make a bad person, necessarily. Intentional actions that hurt and deceive another person is pretty sh*tty behaviour which goes a long way to showing me the measure of a person.

[Peppermint]

Jigs you literally said TO ME that you don't want to be in a relationship, you only stay w your bf because he accepts you

Stop taking the moral highground

[Jigs]

Originally Posted by caprimint

Jigs you literally said TO ME that you don't want to be in a relationship, you only stay w your bf because he accepts you

Stop taking the moral highground

NNNNNNN it was a comment said in jest like 2 months ago but go off Stacist!

A scream @ you hanging off my every word. That photographic memory of yours

[Marsh.]

I love how discord chat is now somehow MY thing, considering it was Stacey, Daniel and Reece who set the thing up.

[Peppermint]

What? I have no involvement over discord. I only use it for other things nothing to with tibb

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by caprimint

What? I have no involvement over discord.

Not now you don't, no. So you drag discord mentions onto tibb to score points like a group of posters on here who don't even know what it is.

I hope the straws you're clutching are paper.

[RileyH]

pipe down stacey drag race is on

[Peppermint]

Originally Posted by RileyH

pipe down stacey drag race is on

Piece of bloody **** I tell ya

[Peppermint]

Originally Posted by JerseyWins

But the main point was not to assume what the person's intentions are or what the relationship is/was like.

I also disagree that people cheat with the INTENT to hurt their partner. It's going to hurt their partner, but the cheater usually has mixed emotions between two different people and does it selfishly for themselves, but not with the purpose to hurt their significant other. The purpose is not knowing what they truly want orrr just not caring, the latter being the worse reasoning but still a fairly common mindset you see in this generation's dating/love life. Not championing that mindset but that's just the truth these days Like I said, under normal circumstances it's a poor act to make in a relationship but no one really knows what's really going on in that relationship or just how bad it really was or the full reasoning. Either way, a bad act doesn't always/automatically make a bad person, that's where a lot of people here are jumping the gun.

You couldn't have spoken better from my own mind

Originally Posted by Marsh.

Not now you don't, no. So you drag discord mentions onto tibb to score points like a group of posters on here who don't even know what it is.
I hope the straws you're clutching are paper.

Originally Posted by Jigs

Strangely bitter about being culled from discord considering it's no ones fault but yer own love

Guys... pls. Stop embarrassing yourselves.

Everybody in my Trump discord is seeing how tragic yall are rn lmao

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by caprimint

Guys... pls. Stop embarrassing yourselves.

Everybody in my Trump discord is seeing how tragic yall are rn lmao

You brought discord into the discussion. The only embarrassment is you.

People pointing our cheating is not a good trait is clearly triggering you, work on that.

[Peppermint]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

You brought discord into the discussion. The only embarrassment is you.

People pointing our cheating is not a good trait is clearly triggering you, work on that.

I never mentioned discord once, so back and look at that for yourself

I don't think cheating is good either. Who said it was? My whole point (and Jersey's) was to stop basing people off of that assumption of yours.

[JerseyWins]

Originally Posted by caprimint

Everybody in my Trump discord is seeing how tragic yall are rn lmao

BYE!

[Jigs]

Strangely bitter about being culled from discord considering it's no ones fault but yer own love

[Liam-]

There are instances where cheating doesn’t make someone a bad person, obviously, however, like I’ve said, I believe someone who chooses to cheat on a partner multiple times with multiple different people, just for fun, is not a good person,

[Jigs]

A Trump discord im weak

[Liam-]

Who’s ‘them’?

[Jigs]

People get judged for ****ty things they do. Welcome to adult life. You're late.

[Peppermint]

Originally Posted by Jigs

People get judged for ****ty things they do. Welcome to adult life. You're late.

Bear personified lol

[Liam-]

This thread has gone so far off topic, let’s slag Bear off again, everyone likes doing that

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Liam-

This thread has gone so far off topic, let’s slag Bear off again, everyone likes doing that

[Liam-]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

That’s the second golden girls gif in an hour, are you trying to tell us something Marsh?

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Liam-

That’s the second golden girls gif in an hour, are you trying to tell us something Marsh?

Oh you know I'm serious when the old lady gifs come out.

[The Grinch]

Originally Posted by Liam-

That’s the second golden girls gif in an hour, are you trying to tell us something Marsh?

Marsh is one of us now.

[Peppermint]

Originally Posted by Jake.

You’re a moron

Stop insulting members, don't you know that is against the rules

Originally Posted by Jake.

Also, “stop trying to make it personal”, like do you lack all sense of self awareness?

Nobody made anything personal towards you, stop trying to involve yourself

Originally Posted by Jigs

People get judged for ****ty things they do. Welcome to adult life. You're late.

This is what you just judged Bear for doing. Ironic

Originally Posted by Jake.

I’m basing my insults on how you’ve just spoken to me.

What “friends” are you referring to, exactly?

Dear ****ing god just read back through your posts lmao

[Jigs]

Originally Posted by caprimint

This is what you just judged Bear for doing. Ironic

I-

You make no sense and it's making me yell