[chick]

Gina I think we are the only ones posting but I have to go now .see you tomorrow if I can ???

[Gina]

hi chick.i must of logged off before you did so didnt see your post till now ! have a good day at uni speak lata

[treacle]

Originally posted by chick
Treacle your post wasn't there when I posted.Iwould not have refered to you as someone if I had your name .phil as you call him I'm sure is an honest man and Ifhes right that would be fantastic news .IF they haven't printed it yet it could be good news to come perhaps with some pictures .willthey print it Treacle did he say anything like that ,because we haven't seen Michelle in ok for a few weeks have we .

No he told me that they had nothing planned at the moment but I would imagine if something comes up like her getting signed to a record company then there would be a good reason for an article on her - so I really hope that she does get a recording contract as she seems to be giving it her all and it is probably top of her wish list as well!

[chick]

Thank you Treacle .It would be so great to here her sing on tv .Iwish people could see what us fans see in her .Ithink she could be a reel star ,she has everything you need to be one .

[Bubs]

Chick that is really nice thing to say and I agree totally.
Michelle is a star and always has been to me hence the banner

[AFC]

Originally posted by chick
Thank you Treacle .It would be so great to here her sing on tv .Iwish people could see what us fans see in her .Ithink she could be a reel star ,she has everything you need to be one .

Thank you , they are only 6 months and 18 month old and they are my world and I love them to bits , but I only see them at weekends now because me and their mother have spilt. yes I was 18 when my ex girlfriend had Harry.

[Bubs]

That is sad you split from their mum but what a commendable person you are that you have stuck around and taken care of your responsibilities, alot of men and women I should say could follow your lead!!

[AFC]

Originally posted by Bubs
That is sad you split from their mum but what a commendable person you are that you have stuck around and taken care of your responsibilities, alot of men and women I should say could follow your lead!!

One thing I would never do is walk out on my Children.

[Bubs]

That is good to hear, like I said you are a commendable man especially at 19!!

[chellefan]

AFC, I can only reiterate what Bubs has said, it is good to hear someone with your attitude, especially at such a young age. My son has also split from his girlfriend and they have a 20 month old little boy called Alfie, couples just don't seem to stay together and see things through as much as they used to but have to say it is better to have two parents apart than two parents who just don't get on, please do not take this as a criticism AFC I don't pretend to know your circumstances, I am talking generally when I say that so many couples seem to hit a bad patch and call it a day rather than try to work things out, I personally think in general it is to easy to just move on. Before anyone jumps down my throat I am not talking about everyone it's just that I personally know so many couples that have split up rather than try to sort out their problems.
The most important thing is that the children involved come first, my grandson comes to stay with me three days a week as this is where his dad lives now, back at home, I am lucky enough to not have a job so I can look after him while his dad is at work and his mum who is now living with her mum and dad works three days a week, the rest of the week he stays with his mum so they share him, it works quite well and I am very grateful for the time we have with him.
It's lovely to hear that you see your children at weekends and spend time with them it is so important for you and for them to build a bond with them by seeing them regularly. It's a pity that not all fathers are like you, they obviously don't know what they are missing.

[chick]

Chellefan what a lovely lady you must be ,and i'm sure you think you are a lucky one to ,If you have your granson around to look after ,I bet he gives you a lot of joy .

[chellefan]

That is very sweet of you chick, and you are right I do consider myself very lucky, crazy as it may seem I probabley see him more now than I did when they were together, but I would sacrifice that if it meant his mum and dad could be together and happy, but it was'nt meant to be. My house comes alive when Alfie is around, when he walk in he loves a dvd we bought with nursery rhymes and action songs on it, the first thing he goes for is the buttons, as he calls it for the dvd and we have to sing songs, wheels on the bus, music man etc, it is so funny because we all sit down and do all the movements to all the songs together, I swear sometimes he is laughing at us looking stupid, but we don't care he is a pure joy.

[chick]

I thinkChristmas is a lovely time for children and perhaps your son and his ex might find that there lovely little boy may just bring them together .You never know do you .I hope for your sake,there sake ,but most of all for your grandsons sake that this happends.